The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Go Sober For October?

[Mouseface]

Hello, 'tis me, Mouseface, welcome to the Bus, aka Gerarld.

We're a bus full of various Babes, from those who are as dry the Sahara, those who drink in moderation, those who binge drink and can go for weeks without a drop and then fall arse over tit (pardon the french!) straight off the bus and into the sidecar, and then we have Babes who try every single day to give up.

The thing is, we all do 'this' ONE DAY AT A TIME and with passion too. You have to WANT to stop with every fibre of your being.

And that's what this bus is about. We support each other. No matter how many times you fall of the Bus, we'll always be here to scoop you back up and listen.

So, come and join us. Lurk, or grab a seat, make sure you're comfy and enjoy the journey as we talk about the dreaded drink, plus everything from how expensive Tena Lady's are, to what's in the slow cooker!

We don't judge, this isn't a competition, it's our lives.

And if you'd like to read the last thread, HERE IT IS

Plus, if you'd like to see where the Bus started out, you can RIGHT HERE

Hope to see you soon xx

Thank you! 🌺

ma well done you!
I was single for a few years after my first marriage before I met and
-unfortunately- married mr slings. I kept my original bank account although we also have a joint account. He has no access to my account and I squirrel money away there.
He and I had a massive row a few months ago, it started me thinking and I have, as they say here, got my ducks in a row. I know what I am entitled to and what I have. If you are thinking of getting out in the future, I suggest you get legal advice (you may be able to get 30 minutes free) and take it from there.
It's scary stuff but enables you to take control.

Strike through fail!

I'm a complete music-nut, and I find it helps mw through a shitload.

One line in this really rings true: "yes, they'll ask you where you've been...and you'll have to tell them again and again".

Mainly because I've just been reading about MrsHoo's journey- I'm on page 20 atm. But also because I think that, to beat this, I need to avoid certain people for a while.

Hope this makes sense.

See the Sun g.co/kgs/rDDZ6H

Fuck a moose...try again

Ma that is excellent news glad to be of service me dear

Sling l love BW

Friday has always been a trigger for most of us (in my case Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday.....) As the lovely Lux said stay hydrated and eat lots of loveliness. I've found being AF I can actually taste my food now and really enjoy it

Keep busy Babes, if you get tempted just have a cuppa or a glass of water and the moment will pass.....

Take care you lovely lot

"Fuck a Moose".

I've been lurking and sending hugs to all you brave babes. You are such an inspiration and helping me maintain my resolve.

Good to hear positive progress for MsHoolie and Ma.

My new favourite phrase is "Fuck a moose!"

I sniffed DH's beer tonight but didn't have any. And I'm driving when we go out to a wedding reception tomorrow night.

Hi all. I've been reading the posts this past week and MrsHoolie, I relate to you so kind of guess you're my inspiration for posting.
After so many months of being AF, and starting therapy to tackle my anorexia, I've started drinking again a few times a week.
I won't bang on on about me but think I need support now to get me back on the straight and narrow once again.
I get so stressed by everything ( dc, eating again, gaining weight) that I've gone back to alcohol to cope and I hate myself for doing so.
I need to stop as have been at the stage you were a few years ago MrsHoolie...i could literally have written your posts, and feel I'm on that downward slide again.
This place feels safe and non judgemental so I'm being brave.

Welcome lapena. It takes real courage to make that first post so well done. I'm off to bed but some of the night owls might be around

@Lapena I have an ED too. 🌺🌺🌺🌺

Welcome Lapena you're in the right place, post as often as you like we're all hear to listen, bang on and on if it helps you, that's what this bus is all about I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling - huge well done for just sniffing the beer instead of having a massive gulp. It's so good that you're having therapy for your anorexia, that's a tough one to deal with and it sounds like you're on the right track There are parts of us all that someone/most of us will be able to relate to - have a huge squishy hug from me Stick with us and enjoy the wedding reception tomorrow x

Thank you for the post (I can't remember who wrote it) about having a plan for the evening as that's when I fail.) I'll. Have to read again without the alcohol in me.

Oh thank you spanna and AllRoads... I don't feel so stupid now!
This support is so good for me and I hope you're both doing ok?
AllRoads, can I ask, does your drinking get worse when you try to tackle your ED because I've noticed with me it's either one or the other.

Oh fuck yes! It's an appetite suppressant for me, so when "Anna's lodging for a bit" my drinking gets worse.

I've been 4 stone, I've been 15 stone, nd I've been everywhere in between- including where I am now. If I bang on the weight while giving up the drink, I'll lose it in a healthy way.

Please try not to worry- one thing at a time, huh? 💙

All roads, I've been there too! Is it sugar do you think? In alcohol I mean as when I'm drinking I feel fine without eating ( apart from crisps) but when I stop drinking I crave chocolate..which I resist and eat chicken salad instead...now I'm supposed to eat three meals and three snacks a day to gain weight

I'm no expert- but I think, in my çase, it waß the sugaŕ.

]AllRoads, Over just read back over your posts and hope yo u feeling a bit more able to tell your brother to piss off. You are obviously a lovely person too

All,roads that shoulthave said

I would have done- but DH got there first! AND he used "ODFOD"! Proud much? 😁😁

All roads..the sugar is my downfall too! Ho we are you doing tonight...?

Good evening. How is everyone doing?

Can I shout - I HAVE BEEN OUT TO A CONCERT TONIGHT, I DIDN'T DRINK AND I'M NOT GOING TO NOW! I'm a bit chuffed with myself . I had a brilliant time. Did sober dancing and singing too . Then drove home! I DROVE HOME!

Ok, stupid question...why do I have all the signs of starting to detox (3 days AF). Sluggish, banging headache and just...ickful! I've gone for longer than 3 days before now! Do you think my body just knows that this is "it"- that I've given the grog up for good?

'Fuck a moose' has to be the new bus mantra doesn't it! Brilliant
Herman fantastic you enjoyed a sober evening, especially when you were 'out, out'

Welcome AllRoads you'll feel better in a few days, just hang on in there.

So, storm Brian is going to hit today, hope everyone stays cosy and safe.

How are things ma ? I can't imagine how stressed you feel right now.

Lapena welcome to you too, you're in the right place.