I'm heartbroken. Life is stressful at the minute with a half renovated house we can't afford to finish, work, infertility tests and treatment and money is tight so treats and personal spending money is sparse.
He's been very withdraw and grumpy recently, showing little interest in anything especially me , no sex drive, extreme tiredness and lack of appetite so I thought he was feeling a bit run down so making an extra effort to help with housework and looking after DS 1yo near enough alone.
Had a minor argument tonight over how frequently he is seeing his friends recently and how little time and effort he is making with me, i said I feel like you don't love me anymore. And he said that he will always love me but he isn't in love with me at the minute.
He's agreed to go to the Doctor as I suspect possible depression and talking therapies due to very difficult childhood that he has never spoken about or even fully understood what happened. Is there any coming back from this? We've got a few trips planned before the end of the year and he said regardless of our situation he will still come as it will be good for DS, this doesn't fill me with hope for a good future.
Has anyone been there? Any advice?