Should I email him? I feel about 14 years old!

[wordsareeverything]

Dear all,
I've NC for this as it feels so
I worked in a particular job for 6 months and my contract ended quite recently.
There was a person in another department I vaguely chatted to about 3 times.
On my penultimate day, we ended up sitting together & I felt this chemistry.... Can't explain. We only chatted a bit but it was pretty interesting.
Always thought he was in a relationship but I asked an ex-colleague to (subtlety) find out and it appears that he is separated & living alone.
I have his work email address.
We barely spoke and I don't even know if he knows who I am.
Should I email him and ask if he'd like to go for a drink?
Is there a way to do this without coming across as an absolute lune?
By the way, I have been online dating for ages & he's the first person I've felt a real spark with in absolutely ages. Or should I just leave it well alone?

NigellasGuest
Sorry but I can't disclose that. Just in case, ya know!
At the time I thought I came across as witty & cool but may have actually come across as an actual lunatic

Good luck!
The worst that can happen is he says thanks but no thanks, but at least if that happens you'll never have to wonder 'what if' which is what you would have done if you didn't contact him.
Really hope it all works out and he replies soon with a yes

I understand!

Good luck.

I hope he replies tomorrow!
Especially now there's a few of us awaiting his reply.
< gets the wine glasses out for the spectators >

Did you MN about this on your last day?

No.

I bet he gets a nice surprise when he checks his emails and is really flattered 😍

Fingers x'd for you!

Ooh vicarious dating, my favourite! Hope he replies soon!

Ooh fingers crossed he checks his e-mails in the morning and you get a reply soon!

Ooh good luck!!

Anyone know any good jokes? it's killing me already

Can I wait on the bench with you?? I'll need cava to sleep, I'm on a knife edge

Oo good luck! Sitting on the bench waiting excitedly for the response

I'm on a knife edge

Me too

Ha!
No reply yet.
Hopefully an update tomorrow.
What if he doesn't reply?!?!
Got any kettle chips?

OP what time does he start work? (Not that I'll be checking in or anything )

Cava for all!
If OP gets the response she's looking for I'll crack open the good stuff and get the naice crisps out too!

9ish I think 😁

If he says yes I'll bring dips for the crisps. If he doesn't we'll all drink cava tomorrow night and chat about all the faults he had anyway

Good luck. Can imagine the nervous excitement, how exciting.

Good morning!!

Oh well done! Nothing ventured and all!