Online Disappearance

[CactusBridget]

So. I "met" and have been messaging/Skyping/talking to a guy on Muddy Matches for over three weeks now. I'm not friends with him on FB, he's got some public stuff that shows on his FB profile, inc pics of he and his ex. We agreed that once we meet next week, we'd get into the whole FB thing. I currently use Whatsapp to message and phone him. We live miles away from each other, but would have met sooner only he was on hols last week, and me this week. He told me out of curiosity he still reads messages he receives on Muddy, but I haven't bothered since chatting with him. For my Birthday last week, lovely message about us celebrating together next year, and we'd be going on hols together next time. Etc., etc. So, we had a perfectly normal chat on Friday and complete radio silence since. Do I:-
A) Ring/message to check he is still alive and hasn't fallen off his horse or had his phone eaten by said horse.
B) assume he's met someone else this weekend
C) let him vanish into black hole as he's obviously not interested.

@Cinderford did he spell it Colin Frith?

No, he got that right . There were lot of their / there, who's / whose type errors, and commas instead of full stops. I'm an English teacher, so these things matter to me.

I was also contacted by a man on OKCupid who wanted to add me to his polyamorous harem. He was a dedicated environmentalist who cycled everywhere - but commented that I'd have to collect him from the nearest railway station if he was coming to shag me . I had lunch with him, just out of interest, but it wasn't for me. I nearly stopped OLD right them, but a friend persuaded me not to have a knee-jerk reaction to one encounter. Next time I went onto OKC I was messaged by someone who was in his pants on his profile picture. I gave up then, though I suppose I should be grateful it wasn't a dick pic.

😂