Hello lovely ladies, I am new to this site I hope to get some answers from you.
My husband hit me for the third time since we got married. The last one was pretty bad. He told me he hit me because i was being stubborn with him .He slapped me until I got a headache then he said something and i shouted at him saying not to talk to me because i was furious. He then beat me again telling me not to shout at him by pushing me against the wall and kicking me badly until i got a bruise on my thigh. He then left the house. The worst part of this incident is that he never apologized for what he did. He apologized on the 7th day and his apology was like take it or leave it kind. He apologized while laying down on the sofa of course he was looking at me. I told him why he took so long to apologize and he said he apologized when he felt like its right to apologize, my heart was broken. He even told me why didn't you apologize for how you were speaking with me and i never shouted and said anything disrespectful to him but he said you provoked me and i hit you. He made me promise to never disobey him again and he promised he will never hit me basically he will never hit me if I obey him. Please shed some light on this matter as i am very confused that it didn't seen a big deal to to him. He is a good man though. The first time he hit me which was months ago, he was shocked he did that and told me he will never do that again and he bought me some flowers and stuff but this one got my head spinning.