I've been with DP for about four years. We don't live together and have a long standing arrangement where Friday night is our 'date night'.
He has always had issues with his timekeeping but last night was ridiculous. He didn't leave work until 6:40, then went shopping for something for dinner (I had been in the supermarket after work and offered to pick up whatever he wanted to save time). Then he insisted upon watching three hour long episodes of a tv programme. He insists that I am quiet when the tv is on, as he hates any noise when a programme is on in case he misses anything.
We hardly had an opportunity to catch up on the last few days and he just didn't seem interested. I feel like I am having to work harder and harder to get his attention and spend time with him.
I don't think I'm acting like a spoiled person, I don't make huge demands on his time, but I don't want to be his fourth or fifth option with whom spending time is a bit of a chore.
Sorry, I just need to vent. Thanks for listening.