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Don't know what to do, DP could be cheating?!

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Kitty399 · 07/06/2017 08:23

Me and my DP have a 6 month old and lately I've been noticing a few 'quirks' of his, I'm starting to believe he's cheating.

It started when I was pregnant, I was in fact a little poorly during pregnancy. DP had me ALWAYS in the bedroom, I'd tell him I needed to clean and do things but no he wanted me in the bedroom, I told him I hated it being alone all day and he said he just wanted me to rest.
At night times I'd hear the camera sound go off on his iPad.

Lately it's gotten worse, I'll walk into the room and he'll quickly turn his iPad off, I've walked in before and he was on snapchat but then quickly turned it off. He's left the iPad on the couch on a snapchat and I've walked in so he's threw a pillow over it.
There's photos of him 'posing' on the iPad.

I can't sleep well because I'm pretty sure this all equal cheating.
I've asked him who he's talking to and he's basically said 'oh it's tom, you know tom, we are just talking about games'.
I've dropped so many hints and told him if I find he is cheating, that's it for us and I'd be taking LO.

I'm STILL stuck in the bedroom, I come out and clean then he tells me to go relax or something to get me back in here.

I have no proof and don't know what to do, I can't just look though his iPad..

OP posts:
MisterDog · 07/06/2017 12:17

I want to just be clear Op, I'm not suggesting you have mental health problems. I'm just tryto let you know that if there is even the smallest chance that it is actually your decision to remain in your bedroom that you should speak to someone about it as it's not healthy or normal.

Realistically, I believe your partner is abusive but that you have become conditioned to find that normal. It's not, either way you need help and support.

SandyY2K · 08/06/2017 00:29

Yet another newbie scared off by the manner and tone. There are diplomatic and sensitive ways of getting your point across.

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