I would like to ask about... bjs

[nottobeknownbyname]

um... i was wondering if there are any... tips or techniques i could use

guffaw

confused

PSML @ this thread !!!

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Confused about what?

Now I am confused....

I just thought that I'd given the impression that I was contemplating a little sausage sucking, which I wasn't.

Sorry, I can't think of an elegant way to put it.

Well its an option if you get truely desperate!! I was and am joking. Sorry. I don't mean for you to do it, just something I've recalled, but from what I've been told gay sauna's have a much cheaper rate of business!! My gay friend reckons he can have a whole night of passion there for about £20!! I was confused how that works, but apparently it's because the blokes working there enjoy their job so much!!

Those of you ladies who say they dislike giving bj's, do you like to receive such attentions from your man?

Personally I don't dislike giving, esp if I'm hot beforehand, and I really LOVE receiving. So I am happy to oblige him, knowing what I'll get in return in the near-ish future.

Had to change my name for this, or would be soooooo embarassed.

Personally, i prefer to give rather than receive, but that is probably cos I haven't had a really great one yet...either that or I am just weird!

The "wank you" and "your wellhung" really made me giggle!

Choccy you must be every bloke's dream then

Well, Lou33 - not that I want to blow (ahem) my own trumpet (I should be so lucky) but I am apparently "fantastic"...however let's face it, any guy with his knob in your face is going to think you are fantastic - as long as you're not using your teeth!

LOL, you fox

I love giving dh some 'attention' down there, but the thought of swallowing is making me feel sick now & I cant bear the smell either - don't think dh has ever felt shortchanged or anything. And I know he can't wait to go down on me, he loves it.

BTw, how do people go about cross referencing posters on here? Curious.

Killed stone dead - can anyone explain the crossreferencing?

Tip to make swallowing easier - practice glugging gaviscon - just as thick and disgusting!

re cross-referencing, Twitcher, all I can think of is that people check the time of a post, and then check who was making posts or around on MN during that period by doing a search. If a post has a certain familiar ring to it, you could try searching the MN name of the person you suspect and see if they were logged on....

hi, I have been trying these tips, but usually we do this in 69 position. I gave him one without him doing anything to me, and he said he had to do something to me. This, to me, makes it sound like he was not enjoying it enough to be turned on, so he had to be stimulated by doing things to me. Is there something wrong with that? Plus, I really do not like the taste, is there anything I can do or use to make it taste nicer?

i can't believe this thread a)is for real, b)is still going but of course i always read it when there's a new message . nothing you can do about the taste nottobeknownbyname i'm afraid. try not to swallow. some people say that consuming pineapple might alter the taste in a favourable way but i don't actually know of anyone who can testify for this. if you're not sure about his reaction perhaps you could try doing it to him fully or half clothed or in a situation/place where he cannot do anything to you in such a way and see how he reacts. but i don't see a problem with his atitude anyway. maybe he's just a generous guy?!

if i may offer a gent's perspective, er, "giving" as in "to give is better than to recieve" is the biggest turn on in the world for most men.

did i manage to put that discretely without being too oblique?

Hi REB!!!
very well said!

Maybe he just gets really turned on and wants to do something back in return?