The Perfect Affair, what do you think?

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I've been reading this article and wondering what other people think about it? Although this isn't a fail-safe method, if you could have an affair with absolute 100% guarantee you would never get found out or upset your family. Would you?

www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/apr/23/my-perfect-affair-sex-lover-extramarital-secret

Same as the others - over a year, no guilt - just a big connection. Both agreed we are happy with our spouses.
Its just wonderfully exciting - the thrill of the newness of it all.
H has no idea and couldn't even complain it has made our lives at all different

No, I wouldn't.

I don't want sex with anyone else, even if I can guarantee I never got caught and even if could magically take away guilt.

Not interested at all.

Most of the posters on this thread who are saying they would have\are having an affair, are saying they're relationship with their DH is lacking in some way. Although I could never cheat on DH, I can understand why those who have posted do. But the woman in the article says there's nothing lacking in her relationship either emotionally or sexually yet she still cheats just because she can. She even said it was a disaster the first time yet she still continued to persue the affair. She has absolutely no justification and is extremely selfish.