Ive been lurking here for a while, it seems like a lot of people are going through something like I am, so was reluctant to post, but feel I need to get it off my chest.
DP and I have been having problems for quite a while, this week we finally sat down and he said hje thought it was best if he moved out.
Its weird, but in spite of feeling like everything is better when hes not around, as soon as he said this I didnt want it to happen.
Im so annoyed with him because if he would just talk to me, it wouldnt have come to this. Weve had councelling in the past and it was helpful, but he seems to be repeating all the old patterns again. He hates his work, tries to get controlling with me and DD, and we have financial probs. But he is the worlds biggest ostrich (with me a close second) and it seems he would rather move out, although he says he still loves me, rather than talk.
Trouble is Im not sure I love him, and part of me is looking forward to doing things my way again.
But I feel so bad for DD, shes noticed our arguments and keeps making comments about it, but I think she'll be heartbroken if we tell her what is going to happen. I just dread it. And telling everyone else too - we live in a small village, so itll be all over like wildfire, and friends and family think were great together, because we dont discuss our problems with anyone else.
I have posted before, but things hadnt quite got this far then.