Just found dh's diary and it's not good

[Realitea]

Saw some notes in the back of his work diary. It says he wants to leave our marriage but feels he can't as he doesn't believe I would be a good enough mother to the children. He has to be here to 'over see' things. Apparently I'm too possessive and it's leading them to live a secluded life. And he has to make sure their diet and education are managed properly.
This is a man who does nothing but sleep, work and go away for weekends with friends. I do everything for the children. They always come first. He even moans if I ask him to just read them a bed time story! I'm a brilliant mum.
How can he be so deluded?
What do I do?
If I leave will he use weird tactics to get custody or whatever it's called now?

I can't believe people are giving you a hard time about the privacy thing. It's a work diary! I would certainly check my DH's work diary without a second thought.

if he can't/won't be open and honest in his communication during the counselling sessions then LISTEN to what that tells you - he's not on the same page as you.

He doesn't want to be honest with you and has zero respect for you.

i wouldn't ever tell him - otherwise he'll be extra vigilant about evidence he leaves behind of his true thoughts/intentions.