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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Swinging Into Sobriety!

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Mouseface · 19/04/2017 00:57

Hello there,

I'm Mouse, one of the Brave Babes travelling far and wide, stopping off here and there to collect lovely folk, just like you, for a natter all about booze and the blues that come with being a drinker of whatever quantity.

We don't wear or sell judgey pants here, although a G-string or two (Oooh Matron!) has been known to sort the fan belt out on the Bus as we've been driving for such a long time now!! Grin

In short, we've regular posters here, lurkers, those who have managed to keep their drinking to 'social' occasions, some who are really struggling on an hourly basis and some who are completely dry!

Whatever your drinking 'status', you're welcome here in the new bigger Battle Bus, (as requested) whilst we head far and wide, listening to one another, as we face each day that comes our way, whether it be good, bad or downright ugly, we really have seen it all and don't mind one bit. Lurk or chat, it's up to you but one thing you will always find, is a warm welcome, Opal Fruit wrappers (Looks at Ma bosom push up! ) and of course, in complete confidentiality. Smile

So, if you'd like to look what happened on the last thread (a bit like catch up TV) you can look at this link which will take you there - JUST HERE

And, if you would like to see where we started driving this wonderful Bus, over seven years ago, you can have a look at this very honest thread - RIGHT HERE

Hope to see you soon,

Mouse xx

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LuxuryWoman2017 · 21/05/2017 21:59

ma I'd speak up for you. There's not a judge in the land we couldn't convince.

dementedma · 21/05/2017 22:08

Thanks lux. He's switched from hiccuping to whistling so I doubt he will make it through the night, especially as we still have the snoring to come!

jayne1044 · 21/05/2017 23:14

My ex had sleep apnea I often thought of killing him Wink. Just give him a scare haha

Inarightpickleandchutney · 21/05/2017 23:24

I have 5 empty bottles in the boot of my car that I've sneaked out to get rid of.
I think it's fair to say today is my turning point.
Please help me babes

Inarightpickleandchutney · 21/05/2017 23:28

Just to clarify I've never driven under the influence

jayne1044 · 21/05/2017 23:43

Chutney I place my empties in the brown bin late at night gently so the neighbours won't hear.

Last night was my turning point when I realised the effect of what not drinking had on me and how much I am harming myself

I've had a few before which I chose to ignore.

It's my first day here but I am ready to face this and already feel I am not alone. So welcome on board the bus.

Inarightpickleandchutney · 21/05/2017 23:47

I am such a mess.
I've done this before with much worse substances, alcohol is just so available and easy and I can't leave that bottle alone til it's all gone.

jayne1044 · 22/05/2017 00:00

Hi Chutney I don't know your background with regards to other substances.
I don't doubt for one minute that you feel a mess. I do too!

When I was a lot younger before I had children I smoked a lots weed every day from the moment I woke up to going to bed. Somehow I just stopped I can't remember how i just changed. This gives me hope that I can do it again.

Inarightpickleandchutney · 22/05/2017 00:02

Thanks Jayne, I might try to get some sleep. My head is so muddled.

CuileanDubh · 22/05/2017 01:27

Come on in chutney, I guarantee you will be safe here. We won't be shocked, we won't be judging, we won't stop supporting you

We will give you a slap with Barrie, we will strap you in when the road gets bumpy, we will have been there, just as you have.

The regrets, the highs, the lows, the oh fuuuucks, the embarrassing photographs, the complete blanks, the hangovers, the shakes, the shames, and everything in between. You are not alone.

You have us.

ma do I need to come down there with the terrorist? She's a dab hand at digging holes. She can be forelegs deep in 10 mins. For an extra bonio I'll get her to make a brown 'cairn' on top.

She's a dab hand at brown cairns.

No steak as a treat though. Else his cairn will be mr whippyish.

Todayisanewday75 · 22/05/2017 06:55

Morning all. Sounds like quite a few are having a fresh start today. I'm definitely in. I've become really obsessed with eating healthily lately but then I ruin it all with vats of wine. I manage the odd af day here and there but I need to do more, gain some momentum. I've really had enough of feeling so crap.

theansweris42 · 22/05/2017 11:08

Hi babes
So good that the bus is busy and welcome to the new babes you are in the right place - no judgement and support from people who "get it". For those struggling, things can get better.
Am at work so a wave hello and sending strength to all.
I drank over weekend as planned but no disasters and LOOKING FORWARD to 4 days af now.
Thanks for the Bus Flowers

madein1995 · 22/05/2017 12:13

Hi everyone, will check in properly later but looking for advice. Foot still extremely swollen which isnt right, unsure whether to go to a and e tonight, wonder if someone can advise? Have attached photo

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Swinging Into Sobriety!
UnwiseOldElf · 22/05/2017 13:28

Hi made. Could you ring 111 and ask for advice? They might point you to a non-a&e walk (hop) in service. Might be worth a go - it looks sore!

chutney hello and welcome! And jayne I used to place my empties "gently" too, to avoid neighbourly Hmm looks. This is a great place and we all "get" it.

Gorgeous day out there!

CuileanDubh · 22/05/2017 14:01

made I think you need someone to have a wee look at it. x

theansweris42 · 22/05/2017 14:36

made that looks sore.
Agree with getting it checked Flowers

dementedma · 22/05/2017 18:04

Witching hour is upon us. Are we all ready to take down the wine witch?

Fairenuff · 22/05/2017 18:11

For anyone who does not drink today I promise you won't regret it in the morning. So let's buckle up and power on through the rest of the day!

It's glorious sunshine here, how about you?

theansweris42 · 22/05/2017 18:22

WW not getting me this eve!
Focusing on how much better the morning sill be and that I DONT need all those calories!

madein1995 · 22/05/2017 18:23

I've taken your advice babes abd am in a and e (no out of hours or minor injuries) might be a long wait but swelling still bad so does need seeing

dementedma · 22/05/2017 18:43

Rainy and windy here.Sad

Inarightpickleandchutney · 22/05/2017 18:59

Ok, babes thanks! I had a glass when I got in from work which is a lot better than 1-2 bottles. About to go for a bath.
Just wish I could sleep

thingscanonlygetbetterrrr · 22/05/2017 19:06

AF tonight (fasting for a hospital procedure tomorrow so would be very stupid to drink tonight). That said I had two, yep two bottles yesterday. I mean wtaf? Had a telephone assessment today for talking therapies and admitted drinking worried me. First time I've said anything to a professional about it. That really is a big step so I'm hoping one way or another I will get this under control.....

CuileanDubh · 22/05/2017 19:08

Good stuff made, keep us posted quine, hope you don't have too long a wait. x

It's quite warm here, but rain not far away. It's been spitting off and on for the last couple of hours. I will not be drinking, 3 consultants to see tomorrow, then the hairdo of my dreams. Hopefully.

ma I managed the grand total of 195 steps yesterday . I did bugger all and it was lovely. Done about 9000 today. Will maybe tack another 25 to that if I apply myself. Grin

The bairn is getting shitey through boredom, but I don't want to sedate her to keep her quiet if I can help it. I am still AF, I don't know how the hell I've managed it.

The doctor I saw today said the Botox is a goer. The back of my head, above my ears and my neck will be beautifully wrinkle free. Bigfatfuckinghairybaws. Seriously tempted to get the hairdresser to leave me a very long fringe, shave the back and tattoo a bonny face on it.

So what if I have to learn to walk backwards.

dementedma · 22/05/2017 19:30

Ooh Botox! Why are you getting that dubh?
Surely you are most gorgeous already?
No wine here tonight but have had one beer.
Small are you ok?