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STBXH has been dumped by the OW

70 replies

OhBlissOhJoy · 20/02/2017 22:05

They didn't even make it to 6 months.
The house has been sold but not yet completed, the decree nisi has been applied for - all this pain and disruption and they haven't even had the decency to last! At least be the love of each other's fucking lives if you're going to wreck my life!
It's hurt like hell that he's been off having the time of his life while I've been broken hearted but now he's the one suffering as he realises what a fuck up he has made of his life.

I guess karma does exist.

OP posts:

missbishi · 20/02/2017 23:41

What Hedda says. They always come crawling back.

RaeofSun · 20/02/2017 23:42

Joy, I hope you not thinking hmm.... perhaps .... or if you are please please think very carefully. Only you know who you think you love,, sending strength and love

IwasAM · 20/02/2017 23:43

Gnome

DFOD.

That is all.

IwasAM · 20/02/2017 23:46

And yay for OP - I'd have bloody howled if I were you, with laughter that is

And I'm guessing he gave not one shiny shit about the more painful howling he inflicted upon you so to echo PPs, for the love of God do not listen to so much as a whisper of his 'regret'.

Keep on moving on

bummymummy77 · 20/02/2017 23:49

This is HORRIBLE of you op. I can't believe you're feeling happy at someone's misfortune. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Ha, only kidding, serves the fucker right, I'd be doing a little dance and having a glass of champagne.

TheSquatLobster · 20/02/2017 23:52

gnome this is not the place for requests like that.

You had a lot of posts deleted on 10 April 2015 - was that for the same thing? Reported.

Justaboy · 20/02/2017 23:55

Go one spill the beanz how old he and the filly she then?.

Wdigin2this · 20/02/2017 23:57

What's with that Gnome person.....

springydaffs · 21/02/2017 00:05

oh poor sod.

I hope it stings ro buggery. And stings a bit more.

Original poster

OhBlissOhJoy · 21/02/2017 00:26

Have no idea what the deleted post said, no matter!
Don't worry about him trying to get back in with me - I threw him out, didn't do the "pick me" dance and when very early on after the split he tried it on with me I made it very clear that there was no chance after I knew where he had been, if you get what I mean.
He is 45, she is 25 but very immature. I wouldn't serve her a pint in a pub.

OP posts:

ohfourfoxache · 21/02/2017 04:59

Ahhhhh, what a beautiful thread

Bask in the beauty that is karma, op. Rebuild your own life warm in the knowledge that he will regret what he has done for the rest of his

RebootYourEngine · 21/02/2017 05:54

Haha love it. Glad to see that you wont be taking him back.

BookHunter · 21/02/2017 06:16

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TheLegendOfBeans · 21/02/2017 06:21

One word:

"LOL"

OnionKnight · 21/02/2017 06:36

Oh dear

My heart bleeds for him.

NorksAreMessy · 21/02/2017 06:54

Hahahhahahahahahahahahahaha

Twat

mimishimmi · 21/02/2017 06:56

Ah well, she came to her senses then. That's what I'd be telling him too... rub in the fact he's getting on a bit by suggesting she probably found a handsome young hunk closer her age.

nigelforgotthepassword · 21/02/2017 06:57

Pleasing.

IdaDown · 21/02/2017 07:22

Everyone that knows him and your circumstances will be having a secret smirk about him - not you, him. For being a stupid twat.

OliviaStabler · 21/02/2017 07:27

Couldn't have happened to a nicer chap!

AutumnRose1988 · 21/02/2017 07:33

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NewPuppyMum · 21/02/2017 07:39

Poor lamb. Who'll cook his pie and chips now?

Ellisandra · 21/02/2017 07:54

It would be sweet enough if she were also 45. And outsiders might think "well, sometimes it doesn't work out". But as she's 25, outsiders will just snigger behind his back at what a dick-led fool he is. As I said upthread, it's probably better not to care - but oh, how sweet to think of him being a laughing stock

Timeforteaplease · 21/02/2017 08:35

Muddlingalongalone · 21/02/2017 08:42

Genius - enjoy the karma, you sound very strong & together. I look forward to this day with ExH immensely.

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