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When did you last have a 'Phwoar' moment for your DP?

128 replies

horseygeorgie1 · 04/12/2016 18:29

As title really!

I had a complete 'phwoar' moment yesterday when my DP was very competently reversing a cattle trailer. I have always found competent reversing very attractive for some reason!

When was the last time you had a moment of pure lust for your partner?

OP posts:
Dowser · 04/12/2016 23:18

Had to google biffy clyro

Dowser · 04/12/2016 23:19

Are any of these blokes 60 plus?

DrFoxtrot · 04/12/2016 23:26

I'm swooning at all your phwoar moments, keep them coming. I have no man at the moment Grin

ClementineWardrobe · 04/12/2016 23:30

Mine is 53 and lush. I watched him in the shower today, he has gorgeous thighs, beautiful hands and feet, lovely eyes. He makes me swoon after 13 years. Ex cricketer, beautiful salt and pepper hair. He's fab.

MrTCakes · 04/12/2016 23:31

Every time I see dp with my ds. He is so patient with him and I love him for it.

Dowser · 04/12/2016 23:39

Mines 63 ...there's still the occasional phwoar moment.

Preferably when he doesn't make that fwoar sound when he's getting up out of a chair

;-)

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horseygeorgie1 · 05/12/2016 00:05

Ah, love these! Its good to appreciate them I think. Mine is wonderful, kind, attentive and fantastic with my DD. He is awesome in every way. He may not be classically handsome but I think he is off the charts sexy.

Apologies to those who feel bad for reading this thread.

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Sgtmajormummy · 05/12/2016 00:16

I got sidetracked on Internet the other day and ended up looking at "Top 10 Hot Older Guys" or something.
There they all were with their pepper-and-salt hair, piercing eyes and grizzled beards. And I thought "Hey, that's not sooooo different from DH. I wonder if I could get him to wear a Liberty print shirt ."

So a sort of "phwoar" by proxy!

Bumbleclat · 05/12/2016 07:01

When he played his guitar looking out of our veg room window whilst sat on our bed, the sun shining on his gorgeous shoulders. He's really been blessed in the gorgeous frame department and I just jumped on him!! Blush
What a lovely thread, I've found these moments have happened more since I've been pregnant and he has taken on all the mundane jobs.

Bumbleclat · 05/12/2016 07:02

**Bedroom window lol!

youokayhun · 05/12/2016 07:46

Every day...several times. Like another poster said, it's so nice to always get that feeling! However I do love him in his work boots doing manly things (especially in summer, work boots and shorts make me weak!) but then again turning round in the street and seeing him tying my little boys shoe laces does it as well. Like a dog on heat sometimes Blush

YerAWizardHarry · 05/12/2016 07:54

On Saturday when he was wearing a kilt to his works Christmas party

allegretto · 05/12/2016 07:57

Would love to know how old the oldest phwoar male is?

Mine is 55. He doesn't go to the gym, has a bit of a dad bod but looks a bit like an Italian version of Mourinho - that will do me! He also dresses very well - no t-shirts as he says after a certain age you don't want that much on show!

thegirlinthecar · 05/12/2016 08:35

Really dowser? I know loads of people who go to the gym at that time . I can't do it but I don't think it's difficult to understand why people do it

thegirlinthecar · 05/12/2016 08:36

bumble something so sexy about a man with a guitar

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 05/12/2016 08:38

If you start work early 5am is probably the only time you've got to go to the gym.

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 05/12/2016 08:40

Dowser mine's 60. I'm 37.

Cuppaqueen · 05/12/2016 08:45

Last time he was in the shower; all that hot water and lather and, hello, schlong! Grin

I still get phwoar moments all the time and he'll be 40 this year.

Footle · 05/12/2016 08:47

Mine is 73. Voice, hands and fore arms, reversing skills , loving blue eyes. Works for me.

DramaInPyjamas · 05/12/2016 09:12

I demand a 'Men of Mumsnet' calendar so I can judge the phwoar-ness for myself - I refuse to believe you are all partnered up with such handsome specimens! Grin

I can't remember the last time my ex made me feel this way (hence ex)
I haven't even passed anyone on the street recently who has made me go phwoar Sad

NoUseNumber27 · 05/12/2016 09:33

We went to a gig to see slaves that he had organised, including ask my dm to babysit for baby ds and half way through he put his big arms around me from behind and nibbled on my ear. Melted. Moments like that are extra special when your life has recently changed as first time parents. I love him so much and he's such fantastic husband and dad Xmas Grin

Sparkesx · 05/12/2016 11:01

It's so strange actually, DP is completely the opposite as to what i'd usually go for - I wouldn't have found him attractive at all before I knew him. But now I regularly have those moments of thinking you are actually the most gorgeous human inside and out and I couldn't appreciate you anymore if I tried.

I had a 'phwoar moment' about 6.30am this morning when I gave him my goodbye kiss to leave to go to work. He literally just had his head poking out of the duvet and he looked so snug Smile

LaContessaDiPlump · 05/12/2016 11:34

Your DH organises slaves, NoUse?! Now that is a story I want to hear more about Grin

TheSockGoblin · 05/12/2016 12:05

This weekend. We have had a really rough time lately and not really been connecting much emotionally or physically. He has been pretty hard to cope with to put it mildly and not very affectionate.

This weekend he made me a fancy dinner, massaged my shoulders and then we spent all evening hugging and holding each other and him stroking my hair. Was exactly what we needed I think and the 'phwoar' didn't take long to make an appearance Grin

Happybunny19 · 05/12/2016 12:19

Every day these days. It hasn't always been this way but things have changed for the better and it's been the best it's been in 22 years together. He's 46 and fitter than ever. I have no idea if other women ogle him, I don't need anyone else to confirm that he's fit as fuck Grin