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Using food as a tool to win me back

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user1475512791 · 16/10/2016 22:05

Might seem a strange heading.
i left my husband after what Women's Aid described as one of the most abusive relationships you could be involved in.
I've had the police remove me from the property because of concerns for my safety. My teenage son refusing to come into the house through fear, my personal property driven over in the road for all to see & 100's of suicide threats from him.
I finally moved into my own house a few weeks ago. I am pretty self sufficient in term of earnings but things have been tight.
TSBXH informed me he had a large pay day yesterday - I have £4 in my purse - and if we needed to eat (me and son) we would have to go up to his house - he would cook & fed us and we could leave.
On breadline & no where to turn

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Shayelle · 17/10/2016 20:11

Oh dear 😞

IreallyKNOWiamright · 18/10/2016 09:36

I can't believe how someone would do this.

Bananalanacake · 18/10/2016 10:46

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KatherineMumsnet · 18/10/2016 12:33

Hi all,

Can we please ask folk to stop troll-hunting please? If you have any doubts, report to us instead so that we can take a look.

We do advise all our members to be aware that not everyone on t'internet is who they say they are, and that, although we're awed daily by the astonishing support our members give each other through life's trickier twists and turns, we'd always caution anyone never to give more of themselves to another poster, emotionally or financially, than they can afford to spare.

Thanks. Flowers

QueenLizIII · 18/10/2016 13:17

At least one person reported it a couple of days ago

MehMehM3h · 18/10/2016 13:24

OP, I am in Berkshire, please DM me if you need anything - just don't go back to him

TheFullMinty · 19/10/2016 21:39

Ooooh it's the vegetable in the fanny poster...Apologies to QueenLizIII, yes the OP clearly is that strange.

AyeAmarok · 19/10/2016 21:51

Hmm.

Seems all those vegetables should have been put to better use.

Can't your kinky partner of 18 months lend you a couple of pounds? Or just give you the veg?

Coconutty · 20/10/2016 05:09

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Olddear · 20/10/2016 10:52

What've I missed????Shock

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