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Would like some hand holding please!

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urbandictictionary123 · 15/10/2016 18:07

Me and my partner of 3 years slit up this morning. Long story cut very short....I noticed he was using whatsapp a lot and online at all hours, when I questioned him he said he hadent been on it for weeks. I asked to look, he refused, so I told him to go....he would not let me see his fone. he left and 5 mins later came back and happily give me the fone. ( which by this point he woud have deleted everything whilst sat in the car!) Anyway, he said he had nothing to hide he loves me blah blah, I wernt having any of it. Hes gone now anyway, and hes come back saying that he had a group on whatsapp helping him to plan his proposal to me, he gave me names and dates and how he was going to do it. I said he could retrieve the deleted group to prove this, but he said something about storage on his fone wont allow it. its all bs I know....just wanted some hand holding.!

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AnyFucker · 18/10/2016 22:20

You just cannot help some people

AnyFucker · 18/10/2016 22:20

You just cannot help some people

Starryeyed16 · 18/10/2016 22:22

I agree there was obviously some issues and suspicions in the first place to ask to see the phone.

urbandictictionary123 · 18/10/2016 22:33

There was suspicioun a while ago, and we got through it...it was only since he started working away I got paranoid again...to be honest he was quite surprised I asked him to do it...
I'm taking the risk anyway...I believe he was telling the truth, his mates are pretty dumb so even if hegive his mates a heads up, they'd forgetGrin

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Emma290383 · 18/10/2016 22:53

You obviously love him very much Smile just a word of advise to you.often it is easier to believe that what hurts us the least.i wish you all the best

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