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Oral

31 replies

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:25

Everyone seems to get pleasure out of it except me. Any tips?

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DetentionGrrrl · 06/02/2007 15:26

giving? receiving?

Tortington · 06/02/2007 15:26

yes i think your right - every woman i have encounterd thinks its wonderful - are you abnormal?

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:26

Thanks.

Receiving

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newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:27

Custardo: Maybe.

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PoppiesMum · 06/02/2007 15:28

Have you never liked it, or just with dp at the mo?

ItsMeMellowma · 06/02/2007 15:28

put a pillow under your bottom

Imafairy · 06/02/2007 15:29

There was an interesting thread on this a while ago, and someone offered techniques...have done a quick search but can't find it - I know it's there though!

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:29

Only ever been with DH.

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DetentionGrrrl · 06/02/2007 15:29

he/she probably isn't doing it properly then. help them out with some well placed instructions.

either that or you have some kind of subconscious problem with thinking it's dirty and you're squirming for all the wrong reasons.

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:33

So what do I tell him? Should he be using his hands also?

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Caligula · 06/02/2007 15:41

God no.

I'm suspicious that you may be a sixteen year old boy pissing about, but hey, if you are, then I salute you, at least you want to know about how to do cunnilingus properly.

I had just started to go into a description of what to do but decided that actually, I'd rather advise you to invest in a "How to" book. They're not expensive and will guarantee you a grateful girlfriend for the rest of your youth.

Now go and do your homework.

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:42

No. I'm a regular and have changed name.

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newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:49

Do I really have to out myself to get a response.

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HappyDaddy · 06/02/2007 15:51

In that case, you'll probably be able to find an old thread, rather than getting slated for starting a new "ooh i have no experience with this new fangled sex thingy do da".

cheekychick · 06/02/2007 15:51

hmm Cali I was thinking the same thing...starting getting into it and thought hang on a minute what if...

perhaps you are a regular

Caligula · 06/02/2007 15:52

OK so what does it feel like when he does it and what is he doing at the moment?

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:53

Have done the search.

What do you find?

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lazyanna · 06/02/2007 15:53

Not that abnormal, I never liked it either.

ItsMeMellowma · 06/02/2007 15:54

yes tell him to use his hands too..exploration is the key..not too rough either and not in the same spot just move your bottom a bit...if he does...or something

suzycreamcheese · 06/02/2007 15:57

lol caligula...

i agree w/ pillow and finding out yourself..just tell him at the time what to do then it feels right...and thats enough, do your homework as the lady said..

cheekychick · 06/02/2007 15:57

maybe loosen up by having a few classes of wine just to let your inhibitions flow

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 15:59

I feel him kissing but there's no sensation

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PinkTulips · 06/02/2007 16:00

lol.... not a big fan either tbh. but then i don't get of on clitoral stimulation, only penetration i'm well aware i'm the exception to the rule though

cheekychick · 06/02/2007 16:07

my g/f the same she'd prefer penetration than clitoral cos she wants it to last longer. altho at times i think she may be a bloke

its really a personal choice whether you like it this or that way.

newnameshy · 06/02/2007 16:30

I'll come back when I have more guts.

Thanks anyway

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