don't know what to do. Oh has been violent

[Dannii6]

Hi everyone. I posted a thread last night with the full story of what happened between me and my dp the other night and someone suggested starting a new thread on this board for more advice.
Cutting a long story short my dp thought I'd cheated on him when I went out for my birthday with a person I had previously cheated with 5 years ago.
He tried to choke me and hit me across the face with a controller.
A lot of people have told me to leave him but I'm finding it difficult more on a practical level than anything else.
We've been together 10 years. Getting married in a few weeks.
We have a joint bank account but I don't really have access to it as I'm not to good with the financial side of things.
I have no where to go with my 2 dc and he's constantly crying and begging me to give him another chance.
What should I do. My heads all over the place :(

[ptumbi]

I'm glad you are moving forward Dannii.

Have you started cancelling the wedding plans? The earlier the better; the more likely you are to get some money back.

Have you had any interaction with 'him'? I can';t believe he's actually leaving you alone!?

[nicenewdusters]

I was wondering the same Dannii, had he been in contact with you at all?

[WilLiAmHerschel]

Hi Danni. I was on your first thread and earlier on this one and I came back to check in on you. I can't believe how strong and resolved you're sounding. I feel a bit weepy. I was so worried you'd end up brushing it all under the carpet. I'm glad you haven't and I think you have seen his true colours now. I am so pleased your sister is supporting you too.

Make sure you try and get some rest and that you're looking after yourself. Make sure you're eating and sleeping when you can.