Hi I've been reading posts for a long time,and I just want some advice really.i feel like I can't really talk to my friends and family about this.
My husband and I have been together for 6 years married for two, I don't think he fancys me anymore.He would never admit it but it's obvious.I have quite a high sex drive but my husband has a low sex drive. I remember on one occasion I was flirting with my husband on the way to a cafe,he then told me to masturbate in the toilet. If I try and come onto him in the morning he will tell me to leave him alone (he's normally playing a game on his phone),he has turned me down so many times I don't really bother to come onto him anymore. We have spoken about this so many times,but nothing changes. Sometimes when he turns me down I become emotional,I'm not really the crying type but it's hurt/frustration that's built up over time.We are only in our twenties,no children.We usually have sex once/twice a month normally always in the dark. I love my husband with all my heart, he has a stressful job, I am always supportive of him,but I'm finding hard when I get nothing back.
If I ever joke about sex to my husband he will basically so no!
When we do have sex he won't really touch my vagina,and he will not do any oral with me.