Posted this on the Sex topic but reposting here for traffic. Hope that's okay.
Firstly can I say that I am not interested in hearing from anyone who thinks open relationships are a bad idea. My DH and I have agreed on this and we are extremely happy. Both of us are turned on by the thought of the other with someone else and I would say we have an excellent sex life.
However, it's not exactly the kind of thing you talk about with friends grin so I wondered if there are any Mumsnetters who are in this kind of relationship and would like to chat? How do you manage your boundaries? For example, DH is meeting a girl tomorrow for sex. He knows that I expect him to text me before, after and when possible, during wink and that I will want to know all the details when he gets home. Is this the same for others or do you just let each other get on with it? Just looking to share some thoughts really.