DH has gone missing

[HeadWrecked26]

Name changed for this as I don't want this attached to my usual name.

Long story short DH (and his friend) has gone missing and I have no idea what to do!

He went out to friends on Sunday evening around 6. He called at 9ish said he was staying out but would be home approx 10am Monday morning.
All fine as he didn't have work etc etc.
I had a message from his friend st around 2pm Monday saying that DHs phone has died and that DH is really sorry he is late but he'll be home by tea time.
Since then no one has seen or heard from DH or his friend.
I've checked the police custody suite, hospitals, as many friends that I can think of and been round to friends house but obviously no one was there.
I'm worried sick, I can't sleep, can't eat and my anxiety is only letting me think the worst has happened.

I know this is about ranty, sorry for that! I just needed to talk about how scared I am. Can anyone think of a logical explanation to where they could have got to? I need abit of hope that he's okay!

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What a horrible situation, OP.

It just seems very odd that the friend sent the message, and not your DH using the friend's phone.

What did he go to the friend's house to do?

I think I would be asking the police to get into the friend's house and see what might have gone on there.

I hope all is resolved very soon, OP.

Hope you are ok OP.

Thinking of you and your DS op, hoping you get answers soon

Have you reported him missing OP. Two days with no contact is cause for concern.

another It's 4 days.. And she has RTFT

Hope you've heard some news tonight x

Ah yes, PT, another of those threads, Why????

another of what threads?

OP have you got friends or family coming round to look after you? You much need someone to lean on. Hope you're ok.

Can't begin to imagine what you're feeling right now OP; anger, nervous, worry, sadness. Really hope it's resolved soon. Will be following with hope

What is the latest from the police?

another what threads?

be strong op.

OP if you post on the MN Facebook page as suggested upthread, loads of us here will happily share it.
The more people share the better, social media is an amazing tool for this.

how are you OP?

Oh dear! I read this thread this morning and I expected some good news and a rational explanation. I am so so sorry that you are going through this, it must be horrendous. I am anxious by nature so I really feel for you, it's the 'not knowing' that is so stressful.

Well, all I can say is, if he turns up well and safe, he would get such a bollicking and I don't think I could pursue a relationship with him :( Your decision of course, but I think you will always be waiting for the next occurrence :( Lots of hugs to you tonight. I hope you can get some sleep. It is out of your hands now.

Can't imagine what you're going through. Hope he comes home soon

How awful. I am trying to think of a reasonable explanation that would make it all ok but I can't.

Any word, OP?

He's turned up!!
He's at A&E, have been ringing the hospitals a few times a day to see if he ends up there and have been informed he was admitted around an hour ago. I don't know much but have been told he's there and not in critical condition. Just waiting on a friend to arrive so I can go and see him. (DS is asleep in his cot).
I should get some answers when I get there hopefully.

Thank you for all your support today, it's meant so much.

Oh wow - that's great that he is located... I hope he is going to be okay xx

Oh wonderful, finally some news! I bet you're so relieved - I hope you get some answers when you get to see him x