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Other daughter in law gets away with murder

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2015mom · 26/04/2016 15:35

My husband has one brother who is married and his wife gets away with murder!

She is so lazy does nothing to help others, keeps on having kids ! She is now going to have her third child (she will have 3 children under 3 years old) and she expects everyone to raise her kids whilst she sits there and watches tv or shops on internet or out shopping. She has never worked and gets everything paid for her whilst we go out and work for living and do everything for ourselves.

She has also caused trouble for her mother in law by breaking down relationships and still mother in law talks nicely to her for the sake of her son!!

Then I hear people moaning about her and think it's unfair and also think it's unfair mother in law burdens us with the laziness from the other daughter in law.

I am not the jealous type but someone made me think today maybe I am jealous that she gets away with murder, is lazy, gets everything whilst she does not have to work even. Though her husband on crap wage she still get in laws to pay for stuff and benefits!

She has everyone wrapped around her little finger whilst she sits on her ass all day! Makes me angry but I need to learn how to block her out and be normal with her even though it's hard

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AyeAmarok · 29/04/2016 21:56
Biscuit
UterusUterusGhali · 30/04/2016 00:32

I want to use mistress's retort on about 90% of the threads on mn. Grin

Oysterbabe · 30/04/2016 03:46

Childcare costs for 3 under 3 would be more than most people can earn. Sounds like sahm is the right choice for her.
Try and be less jealous.

GraysAnalogy · 30/04/2016 03:56

According to some people on this website every woman who has multiple kids and doesn't work is an angel who can't be criticised.

HA

Bellesbink · 30/04/2016 04:06

Obvious troll is obvious.

Boolovessulley · 30/04/2016 07:45

Can we please say mum if British.

Dons hard hat and runs from the flaming.

Oh ass is ok so is arse even better bit , fat furry arse.

barcelosthehappychicken · 30/04/2016 08:12

Yes but big fat hairy bollocks would get the retort across better.

2015mom · 01/05/2016 09:36

She gets all feb benefits because she is not working and then her hubby don't earn much so they get the benefit to boost their income

Plus the kids benefits

And on top of that she gets carers allowance and hearing allowance for not even caring for grandmother... Mother in law does it all!

Then in laws pay for all their bills and grocery and on top of that any gifts they buy for people in laws pay for that. Plus when they go on holidays in laws pay for their flights and spending money.

Oh well in laws fault when they moan about it.. They treat them like kids so they will continue to act like kids.

Yep I am jealous they get a free ride and rightly so as I work hard and pick up after mySelf

But at the same time I am no longer bothered ... Leaving them all too it. And if in laws moan at me I will just say please don't moan at me tell them directly. End off

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2015mom · 01/05/2016 09:36

All the benefits .. Don't know why feb is in there

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2015mom · 01/05/2016 09:39

Sorry hearing is meant to be hearing allowance and also attendance allowance...

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2015mom · 01/05/2016 09:39

Heating allowance!! Predictive text kept on changing it

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Buzzardbird · 01/05/2016 09:43

If it bothers you so much, report her. If she is claiming anything she is not entitled to, it will be removed.

MizK · 01/05/2016 09:46

Don't count other people's money. It's tacky.

rollonthesummer · 01/05/2016 10:29

She gets all feb benefits because she is not working and then her hubby don't earn much so they get the benefit to boost their income

Presumably they need the benefits then if his wages are low? If she's got 3 kids, how would they afford the childcare?? Unless she has a high paid career, childcare for three wouldn't be doable do her not working isn't a surprise.

If the in laws lay for all their flights, spending money and presents for others, that's their problem. If they moan about it-ask them why they do it if they're not happy about it!

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