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Other daughter in law gets away with murder

89 replies

2015mom · 26/04/2016 15:35

My husband has one brother who is married and his wife gets away with murder!

She is so lazy does nothing to help others, keeps on having kids ! She is now going to have her third child (she will have 3 children under 3 years old) and she expects everyone to raise her kids whilst she sits there and watches tv or shops on internet or out shopping. She has never worked and gets everything paid for her whilst we go out and work for living and do everything for ourselves.

She has also caused trouble for her mother in law by breaking down relationships and still mother in law talks nicely to her for the sake of her son!!

Then I hear people moaning about her and think it's unfair and also think it's unfair mother in law burdens us with the laziness from the other daughter in law.

I am not the jealous type but someone made me think today maybe I am jealous that she gets away with murder, is lazy, gets everything whilst she does not have to work even. Though her husband on crap wage she still get in laws to pay for stuff and benefits!

She has everyone wrapped around her little finger whilst she sits on her ass all day! Makes me angry but I need to learn how to block her out and be normal with her even though it's hard

OP posts:
Buzzardbird · 26/04/2016 17:02

Coming over here with their Sharon law Angry

blueberrypie0112 · 26/04/2016 17:29

Is she breastfeeding? Very common to think she is sitting all day if you are breastfeeding.

TrixieBernadette · 26/04/2016 17:53

Bet the kids all have different fathers and she's taking BiL for a ride as well....

Kr1stina · 26/04/2016 19:42

Do they have a wide screen TV ?

Does she drink gin all day ?

Goingtobeawesome · 26/04/2016 19:44

I was going to say you sound about 11 but that would be offensive to preteen children.

CoolforKittyCats · 26/04/2016 19:48

I work and pay my taxes

Funny that because you say you are a SAHM so what taxes are you paying

WaspsandBeesSting · 26/04/2016 19:49

She gets every benefit available because she does not work

You don't work either

WonderingAspie · 26/04/2016 22:21

So if you have worked for 20 years, you must be around 36/38? Yeah, ok then. Hmm

2015mom · 29/04/2016 08:53

Yes I am 36!!!

OP posts:
MarthaCliffYouCunt · 29/04/2016 09:24

'Bout time you grew up then.

rwilkinson84 · 29/04/2016 10:50

Biscuit sounds like you're jealous of her more relaxed life and you just don't like her.

Act your age not your shoe size OP

Atenco · 29/04/2016 16:13

Uuf, I wouldn't be jealous of a pregnant woman with two tiny children, whose idea of entertainment was to watch daytime television, even if she had a million dollars in the bank.

Joysmum · 29/04/2016 16:21

Someone needs some tommy sauce to go with her massive chip Hmm

ptumbi · 29/04/2016 17:18

But, but but - people in this country don't talk about 'mom' or 'ass' (to sit on. It's Mum, and arse.

Are you from foreign yourself????

pippistrelle · 29/04/2016 17:30

I'm afraid, ptumbi, you've now opened the floodgates to oodles of people telling you that in the Midlands, I think, and some other UK places, people do say 'mom'.

I'm not sure whether there's a UK community of ass users. But I wouldn't be surprised.

Buzzardbird · 29/04/2016 17:33

Ha, yes! We say Mom and 'ass' around here...but not usually in the same sentence. Wink

MistressMerryWeather · 29/04/2016 17:45

What a pile of bollocks.

Bollocks, bollocks, bollocky, big balls, BOLLOCKS!

ptumbi · 29/04/2016 17:59

Pippistrelle - they might say 'mom' but would surely write 'mum'?

Otherwise - what mistressmerryweather said ^

Buzzardbird · 29/04/2016 18:07

We write it as Mom/Mommy. 'Mum' is only used on greeting cards, although independant card shops normally stock 'Mom/Mommy' cards.

pippistrelle · 29/04/2016 18:11

I have no personal knowledge, just what I've gleaned from Mumsnet when it's come up before (and it has). Luckily, Buzzardbird is here to act as an expert witness. Grin

Buzzardbird · 29/04/2016 18:14

When the "floodgates opened", only I fell through. Grin

MarthaCliffYouCunt · 29/04/2016 19:13

I say ass.

"DS get into bed before my foot finds your ass"

Blush
barcelosthehappychicken · 29/04/2016 20:51

Next we'll be hearing how she feeds the toddlers by occasionally flinging a slice of Billy Bear sausage at them with her big toe every hour or so...

rollonthesummer · 29/04/2016 20:57

Op, what exactly does your SIL do that affects you personally?

HopeClearwater · 29/04/2016 21:33

I want to know more about the benefits!! All the benefits going?

  • carers allowance?
  • winter heating allowance?
  • free school meals for the kids?
?? Tell us!