Hi advice please. Am I over reacting and being a jealous person. My partner has a female friend, who he has had for years. She is on her own with her son. He claims they are good friends, but when I ask him about her he is very evasive. I asked him out of curiosity if she knows he is with me, and to my utter shock, he said no, she didn't. He apparently doesn't talk to people about his private life.!!!! He tells me when she has text but not the context. I ask him has he text her back and he says no, not yet. But he never tells me when he has. It appears to be all very secretive and I don't trust him. He tells me he loves me. This happened a couple of months ago with another female friend he had, and I really lost my temper and asked him to make a choice. He has now deleted the number and has no contact apparently. I think I know what you will say in your replies. I love him very much and we have a good time together, work well and I believe he wants to be with me. Why does he need to do this texting tho and it makes me so upset. He knows it does and he thinks I am too clingy. Perhaps I am stupid and should be stronger