Would you find this irritating?

[lottielou7]

I've been seeing someone for about 2 months and finally we had sex last night. However, he kept on saying 'you're mine, I'm yours' over and over. It really ruined things for me and has now put me off him. Would this put you off?!

He said he was trying to support me.

I said I don't need supporting thanks.

I wonder if he's codependent? Anyway I've told him no

Lottie you've asked him to leave you alone, you don't owe him any more favours. Report him for harassment.

Blimey ive just joined this thread, how awful. Glad you have basically told him,to "do one" . Sounds like he could be a nightmare

I would have blocked him by now.

Do not reply. Just completely disengage now and he will stop.

omg I could have written your post. Have had massive trouble shaking off a man I dated for a while, and he was all, "give me another chance" etc etc. I am at the point of reportig him ir harrassment. He's never mean or unkind, just won't listen to "no"....

You need to disengage from him now and block his number!

Yes, it looks like I'll have to block him. He clearly thinks he can try to persuade me wear me down to have him back.

The stuff he said about thinking I need him just reinforces it. Don't people like this have any self respect? There is no way I could be with someone if I thought they weren't into me.

Why would you not just block him straight away though? Whats the issue with blocking him? It isnt a terrible thing to do. Youve said no to more contact. So you dont need to keep the doors open for further contact. Block and he will get bored much more quickly.

I didn't block him because I didn't want to look hostile. Silly, I know but this is how I struggle with these things. I will block him now - he's blocked on FB because I thought it would be easier for him not to be checking in on me.

How would he know though, if youre not responding anyway?

Because on whatsapp it's really easy to tell when someone has blocked you because their photo disappears.

Definitely your alarm bells are going off for a reason. It sounds like he is a bit possessive saying something like that I don't blame you for feeling like you do

He wants someone to 'rescue'. I don't want to be rescued!

This would be a deal breaker for me I think.

Or you could explain to him how off putting it is and see what he says.

Sorry just caught up with thread. Definitely right thing to get rid.