Pregnant

[ChampsMummy]

Hi

Umm well I really don't know how to start this, haven't told anyone in real life because I am ashamed and it's completely character for me.

Basically I am pregnant and I don't really know how it has happened because I'm always careful.

I have been seeing this guy for just over four months, just for fun nothing else, although we do get on very well, and he has asked many of time when I'm going to give him a baby.

I am VERY against abortion I've always said I'd never terminate a baby, but I can't see how I can keep his baby, he leads a criminal life style which I have been ignoring.

And I also have a 7 year old son from my previous relationship, I'm in a very bad situation at the moment, can I please have some some advice, good or bad and I know how to take criticism.

Hillfarmer that's none of your business. Thanks for all the advice given

Sorry. I was somehow under the impression that you were in a dilemma and wanting advice. No matter. I'll fuck off.

Hillfarmer you were just being nosey focus on your own life and not mine!

Champs you posted asking for advice and you got it. You might not have liked it but no need to get defensive about it.

Defensive? Down right rude more like.
OP doesn't HAVE to say anything.
But it's a fairly standard question to ask, surely, in an accidental pregnancy in a casual fuck situation, how the father has taken it.
It's a sympathetic question, no nosiness. OP might want to talk about that, it might have a bearing on whether she aborts or not - on which she has asked for support.
OP is totally free to say she doesn't want to go into it - but she didn't have to be rude

focus on your own life and not mine

That's a bit much, isn't it? You are the one who posted the problem here!

Were you expecting us to say, "Aw hun, he sounds lovely and you're right, he'd never hit you. He sounds like he'd be a great dad. And never mind about your son - I'm sure your ex won't be able to persuade the courts that he can provide a safer home with a better role model."

Sounds like you get beaten up by your partner every evening that's why you are wishing it on me, I am not discussing any more with anyone on here.

No need to be so ridiculously rude and defensive. It's the classic response of someone who knows they can't justify their decisions.

I hope you are ok, OP. I think things are going to be hard; and there is a lot of support to be had on here if you would just bury your pride a bit and accept it.