Husband unreasonable??

[Jessicahamdouchi]

Hi I'm very new here just want u ladies opinions :)
My husband is starting to really get me down arguments are starting to be the same he always picks at my personality
Says things to start an argument like
U gonna make u a cup tea!!
Where's dinner?!
Get me my shoes
I normally put up with it but even that's not good enough for him we have 2 kids I'm pregnant again 4 months along
He never helps with them or nappies, bedtime
Shouts at us when he's home
And now he's punished me for not like the things he does
Ie
Ornaments
Not wanting a new iPhone right now
Not liking his jokes aimed at me
Now he is suddenly unhappy that I cry a lot
Can you wonder?
I'll share more later but this is a taster of life
Fed up :)

Scared for the future but certain I will be a good mum

I'm glad it's not me that's crazy

Also to the lady that asked how does he stop me going out
He just does it by mind I never want to argue so I put up and shut up

But what should I do first now

As in financially
I've only about £75 to my name

First of all ring your mum x

Then ring the job centre and mke an appointment!

Is there another option?

Reason being my life is not private with her

Ok

I'll do that in the morning

By that way
Thank u so much xxx

If you can lay hands on cash now is the time to stash it....

I took a bit out of husbands savings and hid it
Is it right to do

Its fine, will he miss it imediatly?

He wouldn't miss it but he would notice

But he will only call me names like normal anyway so no hardship

Immediately even!

I think so but if he takes it without counting it will be fine

Fair enough, there is plenty of help out there, you will be fine and six months from now you will feel so different

Tbh I feel like a weight has lifted already xx

It sounds terrible but try not to rile him up, let him leave and sort yourself out a bit, the Las thing u need is him making it nastier x

Take more if you can, financially. He isn't going to play fair is he, by the sound of it? Has he gone?

Thank u for everything xxxx

Tbh first time I've not cried too xxx :)