Incest porn, your opinions? [Trigger warning added by MNHQ]

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This exactly.

I've had past relationships where the partner watched porn, not too often and as part of a healthy sexual relationship.

Now though I'm in a long term relationship with a man who admitted 16 months in to it that he loved incest porn: he watches mum son porn a lot, I have seen. He also wants to role play "with words only", such as pretending he is my father
I am disgusted by this and totally at my wits end.
He assures me it's just during sex: so wouldn't affect our own kids, but really it's just something I'm so confused by.

Do I tell/ask him that it stop forever as it repulses me. Or do I end the relationship. Our relationship has many other issues but I want this one to be discussed first.

Opinions please. Thank you.

(I am in my late twenties, no kids)

I can't believe you are asking us whether you should end the relationship or not.

Of course you should end the relationship, he's a fucking pervert!

And keep your children away from him in the meantime. OMG!

If you are disgusted by it and at your wits end then I think you need to end this relationship before you have children.
Good luck op.

Personally I would never want to offer my kids up as an experiment to see.

By incest porn, I'm assuming it also involves children or young adults rather than adults who are related? Too close to Peodophilia to me.

Just noticed that you've said you don't have any children thank God!

Would you want children with this man?

No, of course you wouldn't. Get rid!

If he was victim of incest he needs counselling, not porn.

Are you crazy ?

Get out now. So many alarm bells. Not worth the risk. As others have said how close to underage porn is it? Also I just can't see how you would ever be comfortable with him around any kids. If something did happen could you forgive yourself?

I've never met anyone who would be turned on by this. At least no one has told me anyway.

He's a weirdo and a pervert and I can't understand why you haven't dumped him already to be honest.

I can't believe he thought asking you was ok, his moral compass is way off base, run away now.

I'm not crazy. I'm depressed and have lost all self confidence and a sense of what is normal anymore.

I didn't expect sympathy. Just honest advice.

And no we don't have children or a marriage.

For those that reported. I had seen a similar thread on mumsnet so thought it was acceptable. I am a real person and this is actually happening to me. And yes I'm alone and crying.

Acceptable to make a thread. I meant. Sorry. This post can be removed if it offends. I've got the advice I needed.

When I say incest porn: I mean I've seen in my history he has googled it. I couldn't bring myself to click and have never asked what he watches. And the main thing is the mother role and yes his moral compass is way off.

If this is real, no it's very far from ok to watch incest port. Talk to someone in real life and get rid of this vile man. Please report it to the police too. I hope you get the support you need

Once you've finished crying you need to leave. Today. Yes, we have sex threads on here all the time. That should tell you we aren't a bunch of easily shocked prudes, So when we tell you these are not healthy boundaries we are correct I'm afraid...

Being depressed does not affect your own moral filter

Don't use that as an excuse for inaction

If you stay you know exactly what you are doing

Please get out of this now op.

I know of a situation similar to this, his 'just words' bedroom fantasies came out after he was charged with abusing his girlfriends child.

Please think more of yourself and leave now. There isn't even a discussion to be had.

I haven't seen the other thread, but I think, worryingly, incest porn is becoming mainstream.

On sites like porn hub there are hundreds of videos: this isn't the dark web. It's one of the most used porn sites!

On Literotica there is a whole board.

You should never, ever put up with doing something in the bedroom you're uncomfortable with.

I've asked for this to be removed. Sorry and I will leave him.

Oh yuck.

Get rid.

Don't apologise to us. This isn't your fault. Just be sure to act.