It is pathetic! I am 35 and behaving like a 14 year old!
Right, I am being really stupid, and I need some help.
I have been single for three years, after dh left me for a woman from his work, and haven't really been interested in relationships since then. I have had one night stands and was seeing somebody briefly, but in short - I am really out of practice!
Anyway, Sunday night I ended up having drinks with a guy I know. He is a friend of friend, and we have hung out lots but our mutual friend has always been there, so these were our first drinks alone. They were unplanned - we bumped into each other.
Anyhow, we had a great time, stayed up til 5am laughing and being silly and ended up fooling around.
He left in the morning, and we said we would see each other Saturday - at a party that we were already both going to.
This is the daft bit - he has left his sunglasses here. I have asked our mutual friend for his number so i can text him to say I Have his sunglasses.
I was just going to say 'hi, I've got your glasses I will bring them saturday, ,but you can get them before if you want'
My friend thinks I should be more flirty, and acknowledge the other night and be suggestive about Saturday.
So - how should I text him?