As one of the guys on the thread I agree with polealltheway - if a man really likes you, and isn't incredibly shallow, then he'll appreciate your curves.
It's not quite that simple though - I dated a fair bit over the last couple of years, and sometimes whilst I fancied and liked someone enough to sleep with them, I then went off them fairly quickly once we'd done the deed. I didn't set out to just shag and run, that was never my intention at all, but something would put me off them once the lust-tinted glasses had come off. Something which before I hadn't noticed or I'd found interestingly quirky rapidly became irritating.
One woman I dated for a while was quite large but dressed to hide it - body stockings etc. So after a few dates we went to bed and it was.. okay. But then she started saying and doing things which were new - casual racism and a few things like that, and at the same time I just stopped fancying her physically. So from her perspective I broke things off once we'd slept together a couple of times, from my perspective I found out I didn't really like her very much, stopped fancying her - including her wobbly bits - and broke things off.
However, my girlfriend at the moment is embarrassed about her wobbly bits. She's far from skinny and doesn't like her shape but I think I like her wobbly bits more than she does. But then I'm in love with her and would like and fancy her no matter what size she was, because I've fallen in love for the first time in years and she's pretty damned perfect in my eyes, no matter what shape she is.
Some men will only go for skinny women, some men prefer larger. If you've got a good thing going with someone though, where it's about the person and not the body, then wobbly bits aren't an issue. The problem is that people often end up in bed when they're still trying to work out if they truly like each other, and I think men can go off someone once those lust-coloured glasses come off, for whatever reason.
If I'd gone to bed with my girlfriend on our first date, I don't know if I'd have been put off her for some spurious reason my brain made up, because of her wobbly bits or the way she sneezes or whatever, because I didn't yet appreciate how kind and witty and clever and sexy she is. As it was, we took a fair while before we went to bed, by which time I already knew how great she is.
Anyway. There's no one answer, and all men are different. Not sure how much help that is, but there you go.