I'm sat in the bath looking for my self respect

[Lula2515]

OH has been messaging two other women and deleting it and lying about it. Facebook messaging and snap chat. I've messaged them both. I'm currently messaging one trying to get to the bottom of things. She's covering for him but I've called her bluff on a few things.
What has happened to my life?!

I'd be very tempted to lock him out. Pack a bag leave it on the doorstep. Tell him to fuck right off stay away for a few days while you get sorted.

If he kicks off call police for assistance to remove him as he is getting violent and threatening. Then he'll believe you mean business and hopefully the police will tell him to stay away.

That all sounds quite tempting but I'd really rather leave it amicable between us.
I've spoken to his dm who is very much on my side.

Good to hear you have some RL support.

Be sure to check your name isn't on the tenancy. If it is make sure you give notice to the landlord in writing to end it as soon as you are able to removed in accordance with the agreement. He'll then need to take out a new tenancy in his name only.

If your name is on the tenancy then even if you don't live there you'll remain liable for rent and any inventory losses.