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Either I'm overreacting or he's a shit parent

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MagersfonteinLugg · 27/06/2015 23:20

Have just spent the last 30 mins cleaning DS2bedroom after he threw up all over the floor, bed, toys etc.
He's been off it all day so not a complete surprise. What did shock me however was DH's reaction. He was in bed watching TV. Threw the door open and said "do you really have to make so much noise!" Then slammed the door shut.
Surely any reasonably caring parent would have offered to help or at least console their child whilst I cleaned?
Or would all darling husbands react like that?
Am really growing to despise this arse with a passion.

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fluffyblue · 29/06/2015 07:59

But you have a 'den', only Americans have dens

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downgraded · 29/06/2015 08:02

Mine did that kind of thing. I left.

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ApocalypseNowt · 29/06/2015 08:07

fluffy my il's house has a den. They live in yorkshire.

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fluffyblue · 29/06/2015 08:12

Cant believe how gullible everyone is on here

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WorldsBiggestGrotbag · 29/06/2015 08:30

We had a den at my parents house... In Derby!

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Phoenix0x0 · 29/06/2015 08:36

Why is everyone so gullible fluffy just asking?

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Pinklaydee1302 · 29/06/2015 08:55

I'm a single mum and have emetophobia but when my child is sick, I hold him, I comfort him I make him feel better and I clean him and the mess up when all I want to do is run into the hills but he's my child and I have an instinct that takes over.

Get rid of the sociopathic arse before it's too late

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MagersfonteinLugg · 29/06/2015 09:43

Not sure why there's a gullibility issue over a den, mines also in Derby not US.
Anyway, have been mulling a lot over the past day and realise that hesnot going to change his ingrained selfishness. He seems to have checked out of family life totally and has no idea or interest in his own DCs. For example, he shouted at them all to get up for school this morning.... They all have an INSET day which is clearly written on the "family" calendar on the fridge.
I really do despair.
I am looking into rented properties and making a mental list of what's mine in the house.

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fluffyblue · 29/06/2015 11:32

Sorry excuse my ignorance over dens, obviously popular in derby

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Jux · 29/06/2015 16:39

You're married. It's not his house, it belongs to both of you. The one you're in now, and the one you're supposed to be moving to (don't do it).

Go and find a shit hot lawyer, see if there's a way you can get him out of the house while you divorce him.