:(It's my fault

[Happyandsimple]

What do I expect when I allow him back into my life :(

mrs on both accounts. Him looking at her phone and also reporting.

Sorry, north west. Hundreds of miles from me too (south east).

I hope that what the twat gave her is something she is supposed to be given at the moment!!

I've reported too.

Reported too. Can't see what else can be done.

Tops there's nothing else we can do. We don't know this person, or where she is. However at least we are trying to help in the only way we can and not ignoring her plight.

Where abouts in the north west are you? I am in Cumbria and am off work for the next 2 days, i will help you if you're local

Thanks all for reporting.
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You are right, Betty. There are both advantages and disadvantages to anonymity on forums. The only people who might be able to check out anything at all could be MNHQ.

yes Tops very true about forums such as these.
Don that is very kind of you, I hope Happy will contact you, God knows she needs some help

MH resources not DV resources?

Am awake plz calm down don't report my thread PLz slow down let me think am doing things myself I gonna do things tonnorow

Olivia I dont want nothing from anyone financialy atall

:( am going back to slseo sorry to worry everyone let me say again I agree with Olivia don't give me nothing sorry to worry any1

Plz don't worry I'm not muddled I know wer I am at home

Mag apreixiate help on here bur nor anything else without me saying bxoz it will worry me to come back If ppl do things without my now ledge I'm bk to squr one feeling like thins are happening without me wanting so

I my mental hel is fine Olivia

Don north west I am sorry that's so nice of u

Nobody will do anything without your knowledge. Sleep well x

Pl and worry am sloping alot so that why un not on if its beter il come back when im awake more so u don worry

Nobody will do anything without your knowledge. Sleep well x

Oops double post.

You might be able to make some calls in the morning

Happy - that man is deliberately withholding your pain meds. He is deliberately hurting you to control you. He is deliberately over-riding your wants and needs to hurt and control you.

Have Adult Services got in touch and organised something yet? can you find your local councillor's number and call them, this situation is utterly disgraceful, you should never have been left without support and that man needs to Leave.

Tell your GP that your pain meds are being withheld, not that they are lost, because they aren't. He's hiding them somewhere, knowing that you can't get out of bed to find them. You MUST tell them - you are being abused. :(

(((hugs))) for you, you poor darling - I'm so glad your DC aren't there to see this going on but you MUST get that sadist out of your house again.

I got scared readin nightmare for polix to turn up hrrr am woekin on gp tmoro for homevisif Wil keepposted

OK, see if you can get some sleep in the meantime xx

Thank u fhimb whoa my local council er no clue. Adult serv said they lookin info my support

Update nothings happens he being nice stil