I can't actually believe I am writing this post.
I have nc'ed for this.
I have been in a relationship for about four months now with a chappie who is caring, spends time with me, we like each other and get in really well.
Back story, I left my marriage of 20 years last summer. So I guess new chap is kind of my rebound guy?
Whatever he is, I value our relationship.
So, as things have progressed, he has talked about his ultimate fantasy being a threesome with another girl. I admit I am bi curious, and in my head it's ok. We have talked about it, and he says he knows a girl who may be willing to join us.
I have said that if this was one if my friends, I'd be telling her to step away as it has hurt written all over it.
I guess I have answered my own question.
I am also sad that he is willing to risk what we have, although it is in the early stages, for his own gains.
So, thoughts please on the three way, and also on him.