Disturbing footage on phone

[Cococrazy]

I have been suspicious of my partner. So I looked through his phone. I found a video taken a few days ago literally running after a girl, getting right behind her and then video her bum walking. I really don't know what to do or think. It's not actually cheating but it's really weird. I feel odd. How should I be reacting? Think I'm a bit shocked

Cinnabar that is very chilling.

These individuals are beyond vile....alarmingly seems to be many of them.

Glad he was caught.

If it is his, then I would leg it, totally unacceptable weird and troubling behaviour, I'd report him too actually after reading CinnabarRed what a horrific time that must have been...

I did read the thread, but didn't notice if anyone suggested this - just an idea... however unlikely - could it be someone else? I remember one of my friends whatsapped a video during a group chat and a few months later, I noticed a video I knew I hadn't taken on my phone (like photgraphs store themselves automatically...) took me ages to work it out (it wasn't sinister or anything) OP I feel for you.

Leaving aside the video incident, what he said about cheating is striking me as very odd.

OP did you say his behaviour has been becoming more strange recently? Has he had a medical checkup?

So this morning I have spent packing some of his stuff, I then put it in my car and drove to his office. I have left it in reception for him to collect, just text him to let him know what I have done. What I haven't explained is why but I have sent him that link regarding voyerism. I was in total shock a couple of days ago... I didn't sleep all night just going over and over in my head how disgusting he now made me feel. What if someone was doing that to me or our daughter, he would hate it. I can't even look at him sexually anymore. He repulses me. I know he has read the message but no response. Thinking of having locks changed before he can come home so he can't get in. There isn't even an explanation you can give so what's the point

Have you got real life support OP?

have you sent the video?

Well done OP, I can just imagine the stress you've experienced since you discovered what you did and have processed his very odd rationale re: affairs.

Come on MN for support should you get any problems or he lashes out in any way.

I'm so sorry for you OP.

You don't deserve to be treated like this. However you sound extremely strong (even if you don't feel it).

Do you have any RL support? I hope you are ok, and at least you've had a couple of days to come to terms with your feelings, so you will be less swayed when DH tries to convince you this is ok or normal.

you have done the right thing.

Have you heard from him, or contacted him since then?

Hope you are ok!

You did the right thing. Hope you are ok.