I'm new to the site and would really like some advice! My husband and I have been together for 14 years (married for 4). Whenever we have a row he tells me that he doesn't think he wants to be married to me anymore, he's always done this throughout our relationship. We have a 13 year old son who hears him say these things all the time and he also sees me upset. I beg him not to leave but he just tells me to "f**k off because it's over' this goes on for days and is very stressful for me and my son. He says I'm a bitch, and I agree I can be difficult sometimes but nothing like he says I am! I really don't know what to do about this anymore.