A week last last Saturday I had arranged to meet a male friend at ten pm. As he is fairly unreliable I asked him to text if he would be late and was told to "stop whinging"
I was with friends earlier and left them to meet him and when he did not show up I rang and heard nothing.
Eventually he text and said 11 pm sorry
11.30 came and I ordered a taxi and when I was early gone he rang so I got the taxi to take me back.
He was drunk and dismissive of me waiting on my own.
I then bought drinks and we went downstairs to another bar . He went to the loo after 10 mins and did not return.
The doorman told me he got in a taxi.
I was furious and he would not return my calls so I sent angry text telling him he was a selfish entitled wanker and "fuck you"
Also that I had never been treated like that by anyone before.
I was expecting an apology the next day but he did not ring me . He ignored my messages for days and I eventuakky rang using a different number and he answered
He shouted at me for calling him a wanker and telling him to fuck off and then he hung up on me.
I don't think I've done anything wrong and can't believe he is treating me like this.
He has now cut all contact and im a bit gutted .
He has form for being selfish and cutting out people who disagree with him.
He is 66 , stills takes cocaine, stays up on all night benders sometimes . We do get on however as he is a good laugh .
He is unreliable though and often doesn't return texts. If I don't answer his immediately ,he texts again wanting to know why I haven't answered.