With DH, does he insist you leave your handbag indoors? I've never asked why he does that because when I protested once he got very irate.
If I go out on my own he want to know where I'm going and with who, if I get a call say on my mobile he wants to know who calls, if he get's a call on his phone he never says who it was..(I don't ask anyway). If I online he wants to see what I'm doing, If I look what he's doing online he gets annoyed.
If he is going out with his friends to the pub I don't question who are you going with to the pub. But when it's me he wants to know everything especially if maybe my dress is not down to the ground or my top is little bit lower than usual.
As I have become older the stupid behaviour is getting a bit more. DH has never raised his hand to me or talk rudely to me, he put money in my account for me to spend what I like but I just curious does your DH behave like this with you? Or maybe it's me being dozy. 