I found out a few months ago my OH has been having an affair on and off for over 5 years. I have spent the last few months sorting myself out and deciding what to do for the best for me and my children. My relationship with OH has completley collapsed & at my request we are separating.
The other woman who was married with older children has now disappeared as soon as she found out I knew. It feels like she has got away scot free. I do know how to contact her husband, i've anaylsed my motives & I know part of me would be acting out of revenge, but another part of me feels he has a right to know, especially after the length of the affair. Should I contact him? Any advice or comments?