advice needed husband cheating

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Dh been away for a family funeral abroad. He returned last week uploaded all his family pictures onto the laptop. Just been looking at them and one girl seemed to feature heavily in the pictures just always in the background.

Checked the recycle bin sure enough deleted pics of her topless, he is crap at technology and obviously didnt realise.

Logged onto his facebook for which he doesn't realise I know the password and there are 10 calls today logged on messenger and a private message from his friend warning him about too many photos of this girl on his page.

I am sat here shaking. I know I need to take action he has cheated on me before I can't go through this again.

Please advise me and hold my hand. He is out until 10. What do I do?

How are things red?

I'm so sorry red, hope you are ok. How did he get in?

Hayday that is awful

Red I hope you are okay

He's going to find a way to put the blame on you. That it's your fault. Then, when that doesn't work, will come the tears and the begging for forgiveness. Don't listen to him.

How did he get in the house? However he did it, close that loophole!

I am ok thank you. As grim as it sounds having been through this before its not as tough this time.

He got in because I just pushed the key in the door I didn't turn it. Lesson learned. He is staying at his brothers now.

When I saw him yesterday he asked if I was still angry! Honestly! He is still denying it apparantly she is a friend of a friend blah blah. I am proud I have managed to keep my calm. Something has changed for me I just know it's over this time I don't feel angry just dissapointed. I was so looking forward to becoming pregnant again.

Hayday what an awful thing to happen and to all the other people who have been through similar.

he is flaunting her on his fb ?
This is him bragging to all the people he knows.
Tell him he already had the yellow card, this time he can get out, & go & slobber over this woman's photos.
You deserve better.

Well done for remaining so dignified red.

I'm really sorry that you were looking forward to having another baby-although in a way it would have been so much more complicated emotionally if you were going through this whilst pregnant. Sending