Am I boring in bed?

[bowlofbananas]

Actually I know the answer is yes. We always do it in bed. Dh always goes on top as I can easily orgasm in that position, but not so easily when I am on top. We have a kiss and bit of a grope first. Occasionally I give him a blow job as part of foreplay. I enjoy sex and dh says he does too (and seems happy enough). We have sex 2-3 times a week. This has been the same for approx 10 years now since we had the dc. It has been so long since we did anything different I suppose I have lost confidence in changing things.

Yes, it's always best to gain someone's consent before penetrating them

well he's done it to me before without a briefing beforehand thought it would work the same way same as hair pulling or spanking, we both giggle about it now

Im not saying all men are the same but im sure most would let you know if they wernt happy. I wouldnt take any notice of magazines etc for a start! He probilly thinks hes lucky hes getting it 2-3 times a week know plenty who dont.

If you want to put your mind at rest how about you initiate something different doesnt have to be anything extreme maybe just cudde on sofa with a dvd and see where it leads x

You know quite well you have a brilliant sex life. You are ridiculously lucky to be able to orgasm very easily.
Stop fishing for compliaments. It's immature.