Strange Porn Habits- WWYD?

[CerealDater]

NC for this thread as lots of colleagues on here.

Context: I met a lovely bloke in September 2014 and we started seeing each other. We were both clear that we were having fun- great sex, brilliant days out, nice dates, just a really good laugh. If it turned into something more then fine but if not, then we'd let it run its course. Bottom line: he's not my DP, I don't love him, I'm not terribly emotionally attached. I've known since we met that he likes porn and I have no problem with this at all.

Yesterday: Last night I was round his place for tea. I needed to book a train ticket for today and he said I could do it on his laptop. I was completely freaked out by his search history that came up when I searched for a few things. There was the usual guff of "black girls big tits" "blonde massive tits" "spanked booties" etc etc. Fine. But there was also some really weird stuff that he'd searched for like "pictures of used tampons" "pictures of sex during period" "vomit porn".

I should say that there was nothing illegal on the searches. I'm just a bit freaked out and not sure what to do. On the one hand, our sex is just completely normal and if I hadn't found the searches then I'd be none the wiser so I should just carry on. On the other hand, you can't unknow stuff and this has just made me question whether he's a bit perverted and could escalate our sex to start requesting weird stuff...

But, I've always maintained that I'm fine with him watching porn so it seems a bit rich for me to now say that I'm not happy with the particular kind of porn IYSWIM.

WWYD?!

"Just looked up prolapse porn. Wish I hadn't. Why? Just why!"

Oh dear, let's hope your partner doesn't see your search history and assume that's what you're 'into'.

Well, for one thing I'd be really annoyed if someone looked up my search history and criticised it. Surely he has a right to privacy?

He wasn't looking at anything that involved the abuse of women. If he had, your outrage would be justifiable.

As people have said here, the typical MN search history wouldn't bear much scrutiny - why do you think he's google vomit porn and getting off on it when people on here will google it to see what the hell it is?

Whoever said the guy was racist is losing their grip - so he likes to look at black women's breasts - how is that racist?

What did you mean when you told him you had no problem with him watching porn though? What did you think "porn" looked like in 2014?

What a strange comment.

That's like saying extreme fettish sex looks like vanilla sex

If it's just come up on the Google predictive thing then you have no idea if looking at this stuff is a one off or a serious fetish. Just ask him.

you don't have to tell him if you dont want to, just start backing off. For what it's worth I think I wouldn't be able to have sex with him again after finding that out, you can't unknow it !! Vomit porn alone.......yeuck

If I remember correctly there a chapter in 50 Shades where he removes her tampon to have sex with her.

I don't see the big deal. In your own words he's not your DP, there's no emotional attachment, so just dump him and move on.

You don't owe him any explanation just like he doesn't owe you one.

Just checked space docking - ugh, feel like I'm going to throw up. Why did I do that? I can't remove those images from my brain

Do I really have to google space docking, or can someone provide a brief explanation?

I've just had dinner and I'm not sure I'll keep it down if I have to google it!

I was too impatient and consulted the Urban Dictionary.

No. just no. Why why why? Imagine the infections! This is a thing? No.

No good can come from it.

Vivienne's partner will now check her history and be on here wondering if he can be with someone who gets turned on by space docking. Whatever the fuck that is.

Vomit porn? Errrrrrrrrrrr

OH JESUS.... DO NOT GOOGLE IMAGE SEARCH VOMIT PORN

I think you should definitely dump him

OMG there are some ridiculously grotesque images relating to all of this. Just saved a particular classic as the background on my DPs iPad. Lol etc

Maybe he was in chat room and these issues came up and he had a look? I often wonder what my DP would think about Dragon Butter in my search history.

Ewugh Dump him

Brazilian fart porn. Hilarious!

I would end the relationship.

IMO all porn is exploitation. Any man who looks at porn is turned on by women being exploited and objectified. The gross fetish stuff makes it even worse. Some young woman somewhere is out of options and therefore needs to make money by having some guy have sex with her whilst she vomits. Do you really think any woman wants to make a living this way unless she's out of options?
Then dickheads like him get off on it. How can you want to spend time with someone who finds that sexy?

Now I just googled. Space docking. Brazilian fart porn and dirty Sanchez. If my husband saw that I think he would want to ask me a few questions.

Just ask him OP. It could be curiosity got the better of him. Like it did me just now.

CleanLines, I haven't read 50 Shades (and will likely never do so), but how does taking a tampon out to have sex relate to googling images of used tampons as wank material (NB I do not at all expect that's what the OP's guy did)? They are both actions that involve seeing a used tampon and then getting off, but otherwise...

Taking out a tampon is just what one does if one wants to have sex while on one's period, no? Do people actually think that's something to be hidden from the male in the couple, and somehow 'kinky' if it's not hidden?

As GlitteryLipgloss says, I suspect that he may have been watching porn ... then got distracted by suggested things to watch like tampon/vom porn...and couldn't resist. In the same way that I have been on Mumsnet and read about awful links that I couldn't resist looking at out of curiosity.

Doesn't mean it turns him on...men love toilet jokes/gross stories...

"" I wish I hadn't. Imagine a cherry tomato with it's skin peeled off.