Remember ChuckTheFuckleBrothers?

[IveBeenADick]

Well it turns out you were all right.

I am utterly destroyed & in need of some hand-holding - can I come back please?

No, it probably won't.

Thanks for the support. So it turns out that both of us are arseholes - who knew?? I had some other stuff (mostly regarding the mother of his kids) that I would have liked a second opinion on but I think I'll leave it there.

Did you slowly reduce your ADs or just stop them and restarted them several days later?

Just stopping them can be really really bad for you. It can send your mood worse than it was to start with and it won't settle down for a little while.

If you feel suicidal please contact someone. GP, crisis team, a&e and tell them you abruptly stopped your medication - you might need something extra until it kicks back in again.

Please stop contacting this man. It's 3 months and it's destroying you. It won't get better.

Don't drain yourself thinking of the mother of his kids....she is nothing to do with you. It's torturous to put yourself through it all.

Right, I actually need some help now, gonna ignore all the shouts of 'drama' & all the rest of it.
He is on his way over, will get here around midnight. I know, I am stupid & weak. He has pretty much convinced me that his ex is his ex. She has just added me on G+ - I sent her a message earlier just saying that I need to talk to her about mr wm. I'm now worried that she will phone him saying 'who the fuck is Chuck??' She's not replied to my message yet - I really need to know if they're still together. On the other hand, I don't want him here if it all kicks off, I'm a bit scared to be honest. Call me a troll if you like, I know this is real.

I should just tell him to turn the car around shouldn't I?

None of it matters. Other than getting some peace in your life. Ignore/turn off all social media and block on phone. Do not answer door.

Why don't you want to do that?

Fontella
"a massive troll or narcissist"
Hear Hear.
Those poor kids...

It isn't hard: "do not come here tonight. Do not contact me again".

Send.

Stick to it.

It is hard - I want him here.

What help do you want? What can people on the internet do? You said in your OP it turns out you were all right and now, once again, you're ignoring what everyone is saying.

Your biggest concern is whether he's still shagging his ex?

Really?

Well if you want him there have him but stop wasting the time and kindness of people when you've no intention of doing anything different.

It isn't hard. He's a prick. Why would you want a dickhead in your life? Why would you want to live next door to one, speak to one in the street, let alone invite him into your home?

There are always choices in life and for whatever reason you don't want to make the sensible choice. The choice that is kindest to your mental state.

Ffs.

I don't know of you're a troll or a drama queen. Regardless, you clearly need professional help.

By your own admission you are "utterly destroyed". You're the only one who can change this.

Why have you come on here? Do you want everyone to lie and say that he's really into you? It seems that way...I feel sorry for your children. You seem hellbent on the drama as that seems to be the dynamic thats being played out in your "relationshit"... Seriously, shape the fuck up. If not for you, for your children sake.

Turn off the lights and don't answer the door. Why put yourself through this?

She's hardly going to do that. She's invited him over....contacted the ex....goodness knows what else. Are your dc there?

I'll give you some practical advice for tonight, as he is obviously coming over and you're obviously going to fuck him.

Grow the fuck up and use contraception. Your period is due 11th Jan, you're fertile.

Yawn to "that's not really a concern, it's not going to have happened".

I'm tempted to point out that a man who doesn't pull out isn't actually carried away with what a good fuck you are, it's a man who is utterly disrespectful of your "contraceptive" choices, and you.

You say you're not teenagers, but only teenagers think withdrawal is a decent enough method to use.

But it's pointless saying it, because you KNOW it.

You want to be pregnant by him, because you want to tie him to you. It's very sad.

You are an utter idiot for not taking the MAP.

That your utter idiocy is because of your fragile mental state makes me sympathetic.

But whether I can sympathise with you ending up in this state off your meds (my own mother goes fucking crazy off hers) or not, fact remains, whatever drives the idiocy, it IS idiocy to risk pregnancy with this man.

I remember your last thread, agree with those crying drama queen!

Wonder if he will arrive at the bells as planned!

gets popcorn

Are your children at home? Please don't let a virtual stranger in the house with your kids inside not knowing what his reaction will be to potentially outting an affair with you to his (possibly) partner.

Also how did you find her? If she didn't give you her details and she doesn't reply, don't contact her again!

What a bloody drama llama.

I don't know what you want or how you think random people on the internet can help you.
You've text him, he's coming over and you want him to come over. So what can anyone say to that?

I only hope there are no children witnessing this pantomime.