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Are you all single men haters?

121 replies

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:20

It seems that all the advice on almost every thread is saying leave the bastard do u all hate men?

OP posts:
Jackiebrambles · 19/12/2014 14:37

Schools really have broken up haven't they?

I look forward to another thread being deleted.

ouryve · 19/12/2014 14:37

Only the ones who are arseholes.

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:38

Who's a knob ? Kay

OP posts:
Quiero · 19/12/2014 14:38

Yes, we all hate men. Every last one of the fuckers. Our dads, brothers, our sons. All of them, bunch of twats.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 19/12/2014 14:39

I feel like a MN failure. Sad

I don't know all the men in the world to hate them.

YonicSleighdriver · 19/12/2014 14:40

Hate them anyway, Jeanne! Why not?

Twinklestein · 19/12/2014 14:40

Women with great men give advice here. But it's mainly women with godawful partners asking for advice...

BriarRainbowshimmer · 19/12/2014 14:41

Obviously we all love single men or we wouldn't tell others to leave the bastard.

A hint, OP: There is usually a good reason why the advice of leaving is given.

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:41

Very true twinkle

OP posts:
Twinklestein · 19/12/2014 14:42

OP do you think women should stay in relationships with abusive men, with men who treat them like crap, cheat on them etc?

VitalStollenFix · 19/12/2014 14:43

no, I'm a married for 16 years mother of two sons man hater Grin I also hate my father, my uncles and all male relatives both on my side and my husband's side. In short, if you have a penis I hate you. If you have a clit on the large side I'm going to be a bit off with you.

seriously though, why think that people are man haters rather than thinking that perhaps men have a responsibility to behave like decent human beings and if they don't - they deserve to be called on it!

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:43

No I don't twinkle I'm thinking maybe I should have thought about it before posting the thread

OP posts:
JeanneDeMontbaston · 19/12/2014 14:44

Silly me, yonic, of course.

If you have a clit on the large side I'm going to be a bit off with you.

vital that is a great line.

Twinklestein · 19/12/2014 14:45

No I don't twinkle I'm thinking maybe I should have thought about it before posting the thread

That might have been wise. Xmas Grin

LonnyVonnyWilsonFrickett · 19/12/2014 14:46

Are you wondering if we are all single and hate men, or if we all hate single men?

I miss hyphens.

kaykayred · 19/12/2014 14:47

You, Logan. For asking such a ridiculously trolling, childish and idiotic question.

And I will stress here that I have absolutely no means whatsoever of knowing whether you are male or female.

NewEraNewMindset · 19/12/2014 14:50

I am definitely hairier than I was but as yet it hasbt sprouted on my palms.

I hate women but quite like men (not all).

MrsKCastle · 19/12/2014 14:52

Nope, happily married.

My DH has his faults (as we all do) but is a good man who treats me with respect.

I have a very good opinion of men: I think most of them are decent human beings who can pull their weight in a partnership, listen to others and give their own opinion without being disrespectful.

I believe that if a person (male or female) is in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect or care for them, then they should leave.

It often surprises me how many people on MN seem to have a poor opinion of men: you see it when they say things like 'Men don't notice the mess' 'He obviously didn't know that forgetting your anniversary would be hurtful, you should have reminded him' 'He works hard so he deserves a break' (when the wife is 39 weeks pregnant with twin toddlers who both have the flu) and of course the old gem 'You didn't say 'stop' clearly enough, was he supposed to read your mind?'

So, no, I don't hate men. But I hate the way people make excuses for twats.

Miggsie · 19/12/2014 14:54

I don't like men who treat women like shit.
I don't like women who treat men like shit.
I don't think anyone should be in a relationship where they are treated as less than human.
I tell my brother to leave his wife as she is truly horrible.

Been with DH for 22 years - he doesn't treat anyone like shit - he's lovely and kind.

DioneTheDiabolist · 19/12/2014 14:55

I love single men. I always advise posters to LTB so there are more of them.

GoatsDoRoam · 19/12/2014 14:58

I'm thinking maybe I should have thought about it before posting the thread

Yup.

warysara · 19/12/2014 14:59

Having lurked here for a while, there are a fair number of bitter people who always seem to give very strong, over reactive advice. And as they seem to respond to quite a lot of the threads it gives a biased view. They also ask emotive questions that can add to the impression that the poster is mistreated. If you want an even more interesting thread, start talking about porn ...

Mixed in with all of that there are posters with genuine care for others, do not have the quick to judge attitude of the regular idiots and offer good advice.

loganberry12 · 19/12/2014 14:59

Thanks for the insult Kay & by the way I am a female

OP posts:
dadwood · 19/12/2014 15:15

loganberry12

Is this OP connected to the advice given on your other thread?

oswellkettleblack · 19/12/2014 15:16

I am Beyonce.

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