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Don't tell me to chill out!

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Hotsausages · 05/12/2014 07:54

My OH is really starting to get on my nerves telling me to chill out! I'm 17+5 weeks and had a fairly good pregnancy so far. Although I am finding it hard to get comfy at night. I told me partner about this and his response was "you need to just chill". Also when I tell him I have cramps he says the same thing! I had a small bleed last week and he rushed out of worked to come to the hospital with me, when we found out everything was fine he said "you need to chill" I got very mad and said "it's not that bloody easy to just chill" his response then was "yes it is easy just relax"! Don't think he has quite come to terms with the fact I'm growing another little human inside me!! AIBU to be upset about this? ALSO!! He said when I'm in labour I have to be as quiet as possible and relaxed so I don't annoy him! Angry

OP posts:
Sallystyle · 05/12/2014 22:48

Actually two were teens and one was 11, not that it makes a difference.

Sallystyle · 05/12/2014 22:50

forgive all my typos and wrong words!

OP what does your mum think about all this?

Frogisatwat · 06/12/2014 10:10
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HamPortCourt · 06/12/2014 18:26

ALSO!! He said when I'm in labour I have to be as quiet as possible and relaxed so I don't annoy him! angry

Is he 8 years old?

I would tell him that if he told me to "chill out" one more fucking time I would be off. He sounds rude, patronising, immature, and disrespectful. Oh and he takes drugs.

Good luck OP. Thanks

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