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What do YOU think???

33 replies

Eeeeewwww · 09/10/2006 14:44

My dp had a vasectomy a week ago, he has worn the SAME underpants since, he hasnt even taken them off when he goes to bed! he hasnt takent them off to get a bath or shower because HE HASNT HAD A BATH OR SHOWER - how gross is that? he is always like this though, the longest he has gone between having a bath/shower that i counted was 5 months - yes 5 MONTHS!! i chucked all his socks out 4 months ago and bought him 3 packs of 4 new socks and he has only opened one pack and worn 3 pairs out of it - in 4 months!!!! - seriously, i kid you not!! i cant stand this behavior anymore what can be done? he even sits and picks his nose and eats the contents ALL the time, needless to say, no he never gets his leg over and he wonders why he is 29 and should know better!

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CountessDracula · 09/10/2006 14:45

omg
barf

Ban him from your house you may catch something!

fairyjay · 09/10/2006 14:45

Why is he your dp?

mumatuks · 09/10/2006 14:46

and you stay with him/ put up with his behaviour because?? He must absolutely stink! No wonder you called yourself Eeeeewwwww!

NOMurDErousPLUME · 09/10/2006 14:46

you don't want to know what I think

HauntedsandCastle · 09/10/2006 14:46

I'd have chucked him out along with his socks!

Freckle · 09/10/2006 14:47

Sorry, but is this a wind-up?? If not, why are you with him?

QueenEvil · 09/10/2006 14:47

My 12 year old ds with all his burgeoning hormones and bodily changes is more hygienic than your dp. Yuck.

Pinotmum · 09/10/2006 14:47

Why did he have a vasectomy when sex is never gonna happen in a million years!!!

SSSandy · 09/10/2006 14:48

Is this the same man who was spending such a long time on the toilet?

CountessDracula · 09/10/2006 14:48

Just tell him that he has to have a shower every day or he is on the sofa

expatinscotland · 09/10/2006 14:49

anyone remember 'kipper cock'?

GhoulsToo · 09/10/2006 14:52

welcome to mumsnet booby

HELLisHeavenis · 09/10/2006 14:53

I hope he sleeps in the spare room.
You are pulling our legs.

SSSandy I remember that thread what happened to him ?

Original poster
Eeeeewwww · 09/10/2006 14:58

I AM frequently asking myself why im with him and no it is absolutely NOT a wind up! i think maybe i stay with him as we have kids and im scared of being on my own, i told my friend all about this the other day and she said i should refuse to let him sleep in bed until he sorts himself out

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Original poster
Eeeeewwww · 09/10/2006 15:01

Although its disgusting he is a very stubborn minded person and i have no idea as to where to start with sorting it all out! i feel so stupid for putting up with it, but i havent got it in me to do anything else

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Twohootsandapumpkin · 09/10/2006 15:05

Is he depressed - smacks of someone who just 'can't be bothered' to make himself look tidy....?

kandi · 09/10/2006 15:09

Maybe you could give him some heavy hints - buy him some soap, shampoo, deodorant (sp? My dad is like this, likes to be au natural, so I can sypathise - it's worse in summer.

HELLisHeavenis · 09/10/2006 16:12

What does he say when you ask why he hasn't changed or showered in months.
Remove all his clothing and only give him his stuff when he's had a shower and changed his underwear.
Is there any other reason he is being like this.

noddyholder · 09/10/2006 16:13

gross he must stink!

NannyStar · 09/10/2006 16:27

eurgh. that is sick. sufficient reason for dumping him I think.

NannyStar · 09/10/2006 16:29

do you think an ultimatum would scare him into changing? SHOWER + CHANGE ALL CLOTHES EVERYDAY OR GET OUT

joelallie · 09/10/2006 16:47

What was the point of getting the snip? He'd not be allowed to get near enough for it to be an issue.

Why is he like this???

Weird.

thaigal · 09/10/2006 16:50

Does he wipe his bum on his socks when he's been to the toilet?

peegeeweegeeWITCH · 09/10/2006 19:57

Does he have open stitches from the vasectomy which make changing/washing painful?

Or is he just a pig??

lazymummy · 09/10/2006 20:42

Ghoulstoo - pmsl at the 'booby'. No offence to the OP. What was 'kipper cock' sounds totally unedifying yet intriguing.