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[jesy]

Can I start us ???'

Rioux I went a bit crazy after such a drought. Was interesting, now just looking for Mr Right but Sex needs to be good, know what I am looking for now though.
gotta give it a bit more time I think

Major Tom has sexual anxieties, he wont explain what. I have have asked him to be honest but he's not telling me.

Oh Ffs sexual anxieties! It all slots into place now the over complimenting etc...

I'd cut my losses if I were you now!

Oh gotta, sack it off. He's too much like hard work.

I wont explain what's wrong regarding sexual anxieties. I told him mine, stretch. Marks and not so perk boobs.
Why do I get the odd ones :/

That's he wont explain..... I must be easy game for the odd ones. I could cry right now.

rioux I asked him to be honest and tell me jos sexual anxiety, He is avoiding it. How can I embark on a relationship without knowing his sexual anxiety. He's totally confused me.

Life is a funny thing

Ched to some one of pof late last night , got on really well, he likes to cook, football, .movies ,eating out all stuff I like
He did get a bit over flirty it slapped that down lol
After a couple hours I said so why no pics ( wary after last one )
But wanted to give personality chance first lol

Omg I sort of know him , we met once a few months ago when I was seeing Mr IT I have a vague recollection of meeting him in a local pub.
We are friends on the dreaded fB via Mr IT
Now unsure if to continue messaging or not , he te talks as if he Jack the lad but I've seen the photos to prove slightly opposite.

Grrrrr life is an odd bugbear lol

gotta oh no how did that conversation come up? You have not even got close to DTD if I recollect. In the past I have experienced men blowing their own trumpet about how amazing they are in bed when in fact turns out they were bloody awful.

Was on the phone to MR Football Coach last for what seems like hours, he has just called me first thing, he is talking like we have been tog forever and slightly freaking me out, this is too much. He seems very open and honest but I have a feeling something not right.

Also Mr Builder actually called last night and was very apologetic about lack of contact and would like to meet up again, I would really like that, has suggested this weekend but struggling to find a time.

Blossom

Could you just meet for a couple of hours???

Jesy We agreed to meet up tomorrow but I am having doubts because he seems to have already made up his mind I am the one for him and we have not even met, just odd really.

Maybe say you'd like to tAke it slow , I'm hopeless at advice lol

Blossom Major Tom tells me he feels so happy in my company. He apologised for bringing up the sex anxiety thing in a text and said he should of told me in person.
Rioux I respect that he told me just confused me. He said he gets anxious with new partners and might not get hard, sorry for details. I know he is eager to get close, should I be worried about the root of this anxiety.

gotta um that is a hard one, no pun intended. Having lived with X who suffered ED it can be a real killer. It all sounds too much atm, what do you want to do?

I also agree with Rioux that it was a brave thing to admit. If just with someone new then it could settle but could be a a much deeper issue.

Blossom I don't want to invest too much if we are not compatible in the bedroom. I think dtd sooner than later is best. We did kiss when saying goodbye and it was nice, think he'd be very eager to dtd.
Rioux He seems very sweet and he says he wants me in his life. Just wondering if he's over compensating with being so nice because he might not measure up in the bedroom. He's been a tea gentleman, not what I'm use to.

I don't know why people need to mention potential problems before they've even happened really; he may have had sex with you gotta and been fine, but now he's added more pressure on himself. Unless drunk, most people will be a bit apprehensive having sex with somebody new, but in the early relationship stages I reckon it's better to hold back and not be too keen to show vulnerability; I just think it adds to the anxiety and puts up a wall.

Even professional porn stars lose hard-ons; that's why you see them always masturbating in the films trying to keep one up.

Made I prefer people being up front, last guy I dated was just doing stuff like pulling my hair and putting his hand over my mouth while dtd without asking if I was ok with it, bit my lip too.

Gotta I had this with MR Italian, we waited too long and when it happened it was a disaster he was terrible. I know it is not everything but to me and by the sounds of things to you it is very important. So best get on and dtd you will know then won't you.