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gottafindaman4yagirl · 12/11/2014 21:07

Before sleeping with my recent man who I'm dating, only had one sexual partner.

I'm not a totally sheltered type but a few things i am not use to.

Hair pulling and lip biting, actual blood from last time kissing( Not true blood type) I'm not freaked out but not sure what sexual reference this kind of thing is in. He's almost a decade younger and seems more domineering than last partner who was probably more wanting me to do work.

My question is, What kind of man likes to pull hair and nibble his woman. He is very sweet and attentive outside bedroom. I am older but not very experienced with this style.

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SelfLoathing · 14/11/2014 21:54

no way will I be slapped on the face unless he wants his balls hit, surely no man would want that during sex.

Someone once said to me, if you can think of it, someone wants it. Of course there are men who get off on being hit in the balls. but it is very, very,very non-mainstream. Like men who like nailing their penises to bits of wood. Or want to dress up as babies and be breastfed. You don't need to worry about it. Or face slapping. Or choking. It's very unlikely you will come across this as it's not common. But there are a lot of off-piste sexual activities that do it for some people.

You are dealing with someone who seems to like being a little bit dominant. Your question was really (When you drill down into it): is this normal or is it evidence of a porn obsession? Answer: it's perfectly normal.

The real point here is that you shouldn't be doing anything that you don't want to do or makes you feel uncomfortable. You just need to communicate it.

And really it doesn't matter whether he wants to be hit in the balls or wants to slap your face, all that matters is that you don't want to. End of.

SelfLoathing · 14/11/2014 21:56

Oh and don't bother reading 50 Shades. It's utter tripe. The only possible use would be the slave contract to get an idea of different types of BDSM activity but sounds like you've already done that!

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