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Just left the house...

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Jellified · 01/11/2014 03:47

I am in my car because my H has told me to get out. I don't know what to do or where to go. I have 3 children.
I am here because he is angry and he has probably had a considerable amount to drink. I say probably because I can tell he has been drinking by his demeanour and the smell. He also smelt of alcohol fairly early on today ( before lunch)
He is angry because he has found out that DS age 14 is on FB and that I didn't tell him. Older DS also uses FB but, he is aware of it. There is no deliberate attempt to keep anything secret on my part- actually didn't think it was important ds is old enough to have an account and is quite sensible.
Have really just posted to get this off my chest. I need to go and book into a hotel or B & b for the night and then think about what to do next.
I have posted about problems before please don't be pissed off with me for not taking the advice to LTB. Life isn't always so simple.

OP posts:
Darnley · 01/11/2014 22:25

Thinking of you and sending you strength. If you need help, just ask.

IDeserveMore · 03/11/2014 16:37

Jellified you haven't posted for a couple of days. Are you OK? V concerned about you

Earsareconstantlyringing · 03/11/2014 17:46

Yikes Jellified, that sounds an incredibly unhappy state of affairs. You are worth so much more and so are your children. You sound resigned rather than devastated by your husband's actions and you've already got divorce papers ready to sign - surely this is now the end of the road?

Be strong, and go and get that happy ever after that will only happen if you're away from him.

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