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why was the text to sister about op's dh zapped?

250 replies

LEMmingaround · 19/10/2014 20:12

Surely it was genuine???

OP posts:
firesidechat · 19/10/2014 22:17

Eh?! I read that thread & thought 'Hmm, she sounds about as devastated as a dead fish to say her husband may have been shagging someone for 3 years' but a reverse? Nah, I'm not buying it for a second.

What Weed said.

I loath reverse threads with a passion, but I can't see that being one. Much more likely to be a complete fantasy.

GiveMeSomethingNiceToEAt · 19/10/2014 22:21

I can see why she did it though. She wanted to know if the tip off would be transparently from her/ow or if she could deny it was her that tipped off the wife.

She wanted information not lecturing.

weedinthepool · 19/10/2014 22:32

But if she wanted just information, general reaction to the scenario why get so carried away? Talking about her DH playing on the PlayStation with dc's, going for a pub mean for a friends birthday etc. The level of detail was bizarre for a genuine reverse thread...

I can't believe its getting to genuine v's trolled reverse threads now!

GiveMeSomethingNiceToEAt · 19/10/2014 22:38

Yeh....and was it in real time? Did the wife ring her? Did daisy hang up!!

bearleftmonkeyright · 19/10/2014 22:45

Wow, not a word I use often but what a cunt. There were plenty of people on there sympathising because they had been there. Un be fucking leivable.

Singingbird · 19/10/2014 22:49

Y'all never know the reasons or the motivation... Whether it's in'real time' or anything. This is turning into a Soap Opera. You were engaged and yes, some of you, entertained for a while. Move on now.

ophiotaurus · 19/10/2014 22:49

Jeez totally sucked in on that one.

thenamehaschanged · 19/10/2014 22:54

Creepy!

BBQsAreSooooOverrated · 19/10/2014 22:54

Well I'm gullible. Came on to check how she'd got on talking to her Dh and found the thread gone.

LineRunner · 19/10/2014 23:05

Those of us who reported it got an email from MNHQ about the reverse thing.

I still think it was all bullshit.

LineRunner · 19/10/2014 23:06

And the thread about 'the thread that went poof' has gone poof.

handfulofcottonbuds · 19/10/2014 23:10

Yep, my thread: threads went poof........went poof! Wink

It turned into a TAAT so MNHQ zapped it, politely though and told me they were going to.

This one will most likely go poof too.

weedinthepool · 19/10/2014 23:12

Total bullshit.

It makes me smile when people come on to a discussion about a thread fred and say ah yes well you were involved but move on now. It's a discussion, on a forum, about discussions. It's called Talk. That's why people come here, to discuss.

GiveMeSomethingNiceToEAt · 19/10/2014 23:15

I know it's all a bit smoke and mirrors, but people aren't obliged to tell strangers on the internet their true life. I don't think anybody was sobbing in empathy with this OP because she herself didn't seem upset. She was on a fact finding mission, she was 'polling' more than trolling imo. I don't think it's that big a deal.

wantacatplease · 19/10/2014 23:17

Hi, Daisy. Grin

GiveMeSomethingNiceToEAt · 19/10/2014 23:18

Who me? give me a break!

NobodySpecial · 19/10/2014 23:21

Daisy; you're dispicable.

why was the text to sister about op's dh zapped?
ChippingInLatteLover · 19/10/2014 23:27

It's driving me to drink.

NotTheKitchenAgainPlease · 19/10/2014 23:34

The whole thing was very fishy and quite confusing.
Daisy seems to be a deeply unhappy and inadequate individual. She must be very ... bored.
Hope she gets some help really.

GiveMeSomethingNiceToEAt · 19/10/2014 23:42

just remembering now, she even said that the OW was gorgeous!!

Makes sense now why she ignored posts reassuring her that the OW's self-esteem must be on the floor to date a married man for three years.

Waimaz · 19/10/2014 23:55

Jeez its getting a bit ridiculous on here, people spend their time offering genuine and detailed help and advice as well as sharing their own heartbreaking experiences, and now, all too often the OP turns out to be a troll or fake. not nice at all Angry Angry

HarlowEver · 20/10/2014 00:03

Seems every thread on Relationships is a fucking lie.

AnyFucker · 20/10/2014 00:04

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SpanielofDoom · 20/10/2014 00:11

I was wondering the same thing AF, but the person I'm thinking of claims that the MMs wife already knows. Of course, I don't know what to believe now anyway.

AnyFucker · 20/10/2014 00:13

They blend into one, Spaniel. Fuck ups, the lot of 'em. I think I am turning into one of them Grin

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